General Chat

Steph, I have read every thread but yours makes the most sense to me.... Bec change your number and then it all stops!! As someone else said.... you are allowing him to control you and it has to stop. if he texts again, just ignore him and he will crawl back under the stone he came out of.

Bec, Nothing to add, as everyone has given you good advice, just take care and i am thinking of you .xx

Bec , everyone has given you such good advice, take heed and bar his calls, keep the texts and defo report to the police, like it has been said before the Police will keep this complaint on file. Jess and eveyone is right in saying that he wants to spoil your birthday etc. Your well rid of this bad egg !! avoid him like the Plague .... Hope things settle down for you soon Love Anita xx

Hi Bec, Having been through a similar situation with my ex-husband, i would inform the police,I would also get a court order, he is obviously one sandwich short, his threats are more than likely just that threats, but let him know you mean business, If he thinks your frightened he will do it all the more, let him know your in control of the situation by doing something. its frightening I know, but dont let him get away with it, block him from your mobile and house phone. I hope you get it sorted, hes a lunatic. Roxanne xx

Hiya Bec I was assaulted in my own home the other year by my ex's gf. She also threatened me. I went to the police, I didnt press charges, but I made a statement - this way if anything happened to me at a later stage that was suspect they would know what had happened. I also contacted one of my ex's brothers that I was friends with and asked him to make them aware that I had contacted the police. I'm not on here much at the mo as my spare room which houses my pc is in the process of being decorated, but you have my mobile. Call me if you need a chat. Karen x

Thank you everyone for your advice and kind thoughts. I've spoken to his sister and she got abusive messages too... Drunk or not he's under the illusion that I'm trying to win him back and that his sister is trying to matchmake us again... Silly Boy! I've recorded all the text messages and have decided to tell him to never text me again... If he does then I will take the messages to the Police. Thank you again, you all make lots of sense. love becx

Bec,You must cut this off at the Quick,Its obvious this guys a nutter,and needs to be spoken to.If you don,t want to go to the police,have you got a couple of large male friends who can inform him of the error of his ways'Rather Forcefully',If you don,t do this you may be sorry later.Get him sorted or he will contiue to try and ruin your life. Hal.

Hi Bec, Took a quick look through the messages but have to say that you shouldn't be feeling guilty about upsetting his family. HE is the one who should be feeling guilty and ashamed, not you. His parents should be feeling the same for his virtually criminal behaviour.

You can report this to the police but tell them that you just want to report it and take no further action at this time, that way if anything does happen they have it on file. You can change your sim and not tell him your new number, keep the old sim in case anything does occur and the texts are needed. xxhugxx