General Chat

Oh Hoff very strong words about you father, you are part of him!! Betty

Hoff, don't shoot me but.........your mum must have found something about him that she loved.? Maybe he is just one of those people who are not good with having children or maybe just male children? Only you know if other people like him. Rosex

Sorry Hoff this is something to do with you mother isn't it!! I know you loved her sooooooo much. Betty

Do you really hate him Hoff or just dislike him. We do not have to like family members just because they are family. Hugs. Libby x

Are you still there Hoff? If talking would help ,PM me.....I'm from Wallasey so I know how to keep me mouth shut lol! Rosex

I have total contempt for mY daughter-in-law. We used to get on....well tolerate each other i guess.... but because of her nasty nature and my son being such a bloody wimp!!!!!! i lost the little contact i had with my grandson(his child from a previous relationship) Because i spoke out about her interferance, my son stopped speaking to me...... i have phoned him at work, and seen him a couple of times, but he now ignores me completely.....It will be 10 yrs in Sept. He is my only son ( i have 5 daughters too) He now has a daughter aged 7 who i have seen twice. I can't say i hate her as she is the mother of my grandchild. But, God, how i miss my son. Jean xx

my mum was the tops

that bas,,,,d is a sh,,,,,d

to you or to everyone? you were ok earlier, has he had a go at you? show me where he is and I'll come and give him a 'Liverpool Kiss'! Rosex

he lives in saba

Well I won't go tonight then! At least he is a long way away from you...........try not to think about him, have a drink and go to bed! (((((hugs))))) Rosex

Keith do as Rose says but if ya want to hurl abuse at me ya can cos you know that makes ya feel loads better :o)

Hope this means you've gone to bed Hoff night night (and night night Jax if you're still there lol) rosex

still here

I wouldn't say I hated my father more a case of feeling nothing for him one way or the other. He was a sperm donor....... Had nothing to do with my life but everything to do with his son from his second marriage !!!! Lin x

I'm sorry you are feeling the way you are, Hoff. It can eat away at your soul and I hope you feel better soon. I have nothing but contempt for one of my brothers. When Dad was ill he asked to see him and we tracked him down. He came, gave us his mobile number (which he promptly had changed) and we haven't seen him since. When Dad died last Oct. the only way we could let him know was to have his ex-wife ring his work place and leave a message. He didn't come to the funeral, nor ring Mum and he told his sons that he didn't get the message and knew nothing about it. I will never forgive him and I just know that when Mum goes he will come out from under his rock wanting to know what she has left him. I don't hate him, too strong an emotion to waste on him. He's 50 next month, sad, lonely, disliked by his sons and his ex-wife who did herself a favour when she kicked him out. Sorry, but he has hurt us all so much. Susan

Not hate.....but keep a million miles away from one of OH's Aunts.......very peculiar spoilt old lady.....never understand her...

the fact that someone can generate such a strong emotion in you is distressing but in a way is letting them have the upper hand.To treat them with indifference or make a desicion to put them and their behaviour firmly in the past and move on without them having an influence is probably the best and only option in the end.I speak from personal experience.

I HATE MY MOTHER, I HAD AN AWFUL LIFE WITH HER. AND SHE KEPT ME AWAY FROM MY DAD FOR 32 YEARS. LISA

oh, yes the father of one of my grand kids, he got my daughter on heroin, now shes DEAD!!! that done me good, to get it off my chest