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Hi Dee Everyone's much nicer than me:) I've hated a few people - probably sometimes to do with bits of me I don't like but not always. David :)

Never hated anyone, apart from my little bro when he used to pull my hair:) I try to be nice even if others are not. HC

Hi All, I'm not sure, I've always said that hate is too strong a word but when I learnt that my late husbands first wife had died, I danced round the room. She was a really horrible, selfish,lying old *****. Vivienne

I'm not sure that quote really holds water. Otherwise we wouldn't hate murderers or paedophiles or terrorists would we?

Do husbands count? Jean.

I hate my ex-brother in-law. Does'nt feel anything like love. Will hate him as long as he is alive. Hilary.

I never realised we had so many perfect members, lmao.

yes i hate the 2 people that are currently on trial for the murder of 18 month old jordan mc gann

Maz,I know how you feel.I hated my so called mother.I also hated the bas turd (not using bad words here!!) who tried to kill me,regardless of my 5 children being there..See now,after 8 years,I find I am totally indifferent to him and that seems to annoy him all the more.He dosen't know how to handle that.Good....... Hop-a-long.

Hi folks Thank you all for responding to this. We seem to have some very mixed views and it has been interesting reading them all. Dee x

Dee Right now i'm finding it very hard not to hate two people in my life, but i deffinately don't see anything about them in myself at all. Far from it to be honest. Deb X

Except that it an emotion, I cannot accept that hate is connected to love - any more than blue is connected to yellow. I have loved, disliked and hated, three separate and distinct emotions.. I have met people who were truly evil - and I use the past tense as I hope they are dead and can do no more harm in the world. I have hated what some people stood for, and attempted to achieve, and have tried to kill them. If I met a bomber I would have no compunction in putting him/her (perhaps 'it' is a more suitable pronoun) down. Because of earlier training I doubt if they would get the benefit of doubt. Len

Agree with Bendy, hate the terrorists andthose who ruin others lifes...not at all like them I hasten to add! L XX

yes Dee....with a vengeance.....in particular my mother in law for all past incidents.....and currently my hubby soon to be ex hubby for blatantly lying in our divorce proceedings.....and the reason being.....I hate him for what our children will find out about him at some point in the future.....that he didnt give a toss about them and used them as pawns for the divorce etc....and not only hate.......I pity him big time....cos he will never be able to get back their childhood and will never have the wonderful memories that I collect every day of their lives...i hope he ends up a miserable old man!! moan over!! Jill x

No. :-) Joy

I absolutely despise the woman/thing that lives next door to me. Over the past 5 years she has made it like living in a hellhole. I wish quite often when she goes out she will not come back again. I have never felt like this about anyone else and I don't like it, but it's an onslaught of hatred. She has made our lives intolerable and always gets away with whatever she does. That makes it all the worse.

I hate people who cannot acept someone else's opinion without becoming vindictive,( after all everyones entitled to an opinion) and thereafter continually snipe at them behind their backs, not nice. Len

Yes i have, and she caused me no end of pain when she was alive. R.B.x

Dee I read Herman Hesse's book Magister Ludi with interest (a long time ago) and have read other articles by and about him, and concluded his philosophy was a bit odd odd times. What was the source of your quote? If you have read his works I respect you but I cannot accept the premise of the quote. I hate paedophiles and have read the case histories of some that I would recommend for euthanasia. I was once asked if I would consider counselling one. I replied that I considered the condition was incurable (ref. Ray Wyre) but that I would do so if I may use secateurs. I was hauled over the coals by management for my politically incorrect attitude. Your quote suggests that I have paedophilia in my personality. Correct? len

YES HAVE DONE,STILL DO ,ONES ALREADY ROTTING IN HELL JUST WAITING FOR THE OTHER THREE TO JOIN HIM,GOD TOOK THE WRONG ONES WHEN HE TOOK MY MUM,BROTHER AND NIECE. THERE IS NO ROOM FOR FORGIVENESS AND IF THEY WERE ON FIRE I WOULD PEE ON THEM,WOULD LIKE THEM TO GET USED TO IT COS THATS WHAT ITS LIKE WHERE THEY ARE GOING. MY LIFE AT THE PRESENT CANNOT FULLY GO FORWARD BECAUSE OF THESE PIGS.