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Bec

Bec Report 8 Mar 2006 17:41

RB - Maybe, I think it's more that he's put out by someone 20yrs his junior being employed despite having no experience! Well tough! xx

Lynda Ferret Lady

Lynda Ferret Lady Report 8 Mar 2006 17:48

Bec... know how you are feeling - I had this once when I worked up in the city and it is horrible... please don't let this person intimidate you they are just not worth it... unfortunately there are some people who just don't know how to be pleasant... You must complain and let him know that you wont bve bullied. Take care Lynda x

Felicity

Felicity Report 8 Mar 2006 17:48

Bec, Rupert has a point, but you might like to consider this course of action - How about saying to this man, quietly and politely, ' I'm sure you don't meant to be patronising and intimidating, but that's how it's coming across to me. Do you think you could try to not pick fault with me or talk to me as if I'm a small child? I'm happy to accept any training you can give me if it's done properly.' Said politely, and indicating that you think he's unaware of his actions and perfectly capable of changing his behaviour might take the wind out of his sails and at least get him thinking. Only you know him well enough to know if this will work though. You've had lots of good advice so far.

James

James Report 8 Mar 2006 18:30

Hi Bec have you had a course on Business Ethics I think thats what it is called, ask your boss, A person should not invade someones personal space or touch you, I remember that from the course I attended, James :<))