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OMG i am so sorry, what a bastard he is, you have a lot of friends on here for support, dont let him manipulate you into taking any blame for this, he has not only cheated on you but your son as well. You must be devastated right now but hopefully the anger will set in soon and you will see that you are the innocent one here. Love and Hugs debbie x

Sweetheart I am so sorry for your plight ............ But how can he possibly expect your undivided attention 24/7 ??? You have a 3 year old to look after for goodness sakes!! You poor luv {{{HUGS}}} xxx

Hays, what Suzanne put in her first three sentences sums up what I'd say to you. Please keep your self-esteem, and have these ((((HUGS)))) for you and your little one. x

Hi Hays, I think you may need to spend the day with your Mum and son and give yourself time to come to terms with it. One thing... when I said I wished Id worked it out with my ex it was because there was a chance that he wanted to work it out too... if your other half is saying he doesnt care anymore......????? (If it were me now knowing what I know... Id drop him like a hot potato!!!!!)... Both you and your son need someone to care you, if he cant then you must care about yourself and do what is best for YOU. God Bless, Suzanne X

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Julie xxx

So very sorry, dont know what to say...............thinking of you.. ................Barbara.............

I realy don't know what to say to you. (((((((((( hug )))))))))) Take care. Christine x

Take Care of yourself and your little boy. Heather xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hays I am so sorry to hear your news. You were very supportive of my problems at the weekend as well. As everybody else is saying, it's not your fault. Seems like you would be better off without him! Please take care, and give your little one a hug as well. He is going to be well confused over what is going on. Take care (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUMUNGOUS HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Pauline

hays ,big hugs again babe,and ive got to say it you guys are special.she needs all the support she can get.xxxxxhugs joy

At this moment of time nothing anyone says to you will stop the pain you are feeling, it is like you have been bereaved. the man you love and trusted has betrayed you. You will have so many emotions running through your head ,you won't know how to cope.But believe me you will. Talk things through with your partner before you decide what to do. I only wish i could take the pain away for you , but a magic wand i don't have. Shirley Ann.

i just wanted to say,there are some very special people on here,thank u all from the bottom of my broken heartxx

Dearest Hays - my heart really goes out to you. Clearly this man has no regard for your feelings or respect. I know it's been said but this really isn't your fault. It seems he can't be honest with himself let alone you. You are worth so much more than this treatment. At a guess he is expecting you to weep, try again, talk things through. In my experience it will just give him more ammunition to turn the blame onto you - please dont give him the satisfaction or leave yourself open to this abuse. Cut him off dead (except access arrangements to your son and for now perhaps these could be done through someone else while you're still raw). All the cliches in the world won't help suffice to say that you do have real friends who are here to support you - please use them they will be your lifeline. PM me anytime you wantx LOL and hugs Dianna x

this is NOT your fault, and dont ever forget that! will be thinking of you sweetie and all though you dont want to hear this YOU CAN and WILL have somebody who will love cherish and adore you, he doesnt deserve you babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

i hope your ok hun, no it isnt your fault, stay strong kimxxx

oh Hays honey....I dunno wot on earth to say to you...... Huge enormous big hugs for you ((((((((((xxxxxxxxxx)))))))))) Jilly x x you know where I am if you wanna chat x x x

So sorry to hear of your unhappiness Hays. Your Mum will be a big support for you i'm sure. Be strong for your young son,and you know everyone is thinking of you on here. Take good care of yourself. Love Mau XX

hope tomorrow is better for ya ,just to let you know were thinking of you,xxxxxjoy

I'm so sorry to hear your news and it's no wonder you're in bits. The advice on here has been very good though, especially the part about not letting him blame you for his actions. Remember the phrase - act in haste, repent at leisure - though, and don't be rushed into any decisions that you don't feel ready for. It's only when the shock of finding out has subsided that you'll really be able to think clearly about what's best for you and your son. Thinking of you and your little one and sending hugs and gentle thoughts. x

well said felicity,if you rush into things its not such a good idea ,sleep on it.xxxxxxxxjoy