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morning hays ,just off shopping wanted to check u ok hun,thinking about ya,as we all are.hugs and hugs and more hugs,xxxxxxxxxxxxxxjoy

Thank uxx honeyxx

Hays, don't you let him tell you a load of old rubbish. If he was a man he would be supporting you with the little lad, not running around after some silly bit of skirt who has no morals. Have a day or so to think about things and then try to talk to him and see if he is worth taking time for, if he still says he's fallen out of love with you, then let him get on with it, but take him for everything you can, so you and little lad don't have to suffer. Will be thinking about you and hope things sort themselves out for you without too much unpleasantness, if he doesn't know how lucky he is to have a real home, with a wife and child, then he doesn't deserve you both. Take care, Liz

Hays..Hope all gets sorted for you soon hun, just concentrate on your wee boy for a while till you get your head around it, then hopefully when thing settle you will make the right dission for your future.. I wish you all the best in what ever you decide... Jay.x.x

oh hay im so sorry not long got in from work then my friend phoned with bad news aww hope ur ok Rosexxxx

well said felicity,if you rush into things its not such a good idea ,sleep on it.xxxxxxxxjoy

I'm so sorry to hear your news and it's no wonder you're in bits. The advice on here has been very good though, especially the part about not letting him blame you for his actions. Remember the phrase - act in haste, repent at leisure - though, and don't be rushed into any decisions that you don't feel ready for. It's only when the shock of finding out has subsided that you'll really be able to think clearly about what's best for you and your son. Thinking of you and your little one and sending hugs and gentle thoughts. x

hope tomorrow is better for ya ,just to let you know were thinking of you,xxxxxjoy

So sorry to hear of your unhappiness Hays. Your Mum will be a big support for you i'm sure. Be strong for your young son,and you know everyone is thinking of you on here. Take good care of yourself. Love Mau XX

oh Hays honey....I dunno wot on earth to say to you...... Huge enormous big hugs for you ((((((((((xxxxxxxxxx)))))))))) Jilly x x you know where I am if you wanna chat x x x

i hope your ok hun, no it isnt your fault, stay strong kimxxx

this is NOT your fault, and dont ever forget that! will be thinking of you sweetie and all though you dont want to hear this YOU CAN and WILL have somebody who will love cherish and adore you, he doesnt deserve you babe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Dearest Hays - my heart really goes out to you. Clearly this man has no regard for your feelings or respect. I know it's been said but this really isn't your fault. It seems he can't be honest with himself let alone you. You are worth so much more than this treatment. At a guess he is expecting you to weep, try again, talk things through. In my experience it will just give him more ammunition to turn the blame onto you - please dont give him the satisfaction or leave yourself open to this abuse. Cut him off dead (except access arrangements to your son and for now perhaps these could be done through someone else while you're still raw). All the cliches in the world won't help suffice to say that you do have real friends who are here to support you - please use them they will be your lifeline. PM me anytime you wantx LOL and hugs Dianna x

i just wanted to say,there are some very special people on here,thank u all from the bottom of my broken heartxx

At this moment of time nothing anyone says to you will stop the pain you are feeling, it is like you have been bereaved. the man you love and trusted has betrayed you. You will have so many emotions running through your head ,you won't know how to cope.But believe me you will. Talk things through with your partner before you decide what to do. I only wish i could take the pain away for you , but a magic wand i don't have. Shirley Ann.

hays ,big hugs again babe,and ive got to say it you guys are special.she needs all the support she can get.xxxxxhugs joy

Hays I am so sorry to hear your news. You were very supportive of my problems at the weekend as well. As everybody else is saying, it's not your fault. Seems like you would be better off without him! Please take care, and give your little one a hug as well. He is going to be well confused over what is going on. Take care (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUMUNGOUS HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Pauline

Take Care of yourself and your little boy. Heather xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I realy don't know what to say to you. (((((((((( hug )))))))))) Take care. Christine x

So very sorry, dont know what to say...............thinking of you.. ................Barbara.............