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Feel really silly, but just come over all tearful and emotional. Thigns are just getting on top of me and im so tired and stressed out and i just need everything to be ok x

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Aw, Steph, you are young and you are beautiful, things will work out. Gwynne

Massive, Big (((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Take Care Tina x

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Oh Steph you're entitled to be tearful at times,but dont forget you have lots of friends who are here for you.(((hugs))) xxx

i know i do and thank you, its just stressing over money, im tired and sick of worrying, i dont want it to be like this

Oh Steph - I know exactly how you feel - have the same probs myself - it's an awful stress and worry isn't it ?? {{{HUGS}}} xxxxx

know how you feel.... heres a great big ((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))))))))))) Joycexx

Oh Steedie, sorry you're feeling miserable. It's hard when you're young, working full time and trying to run a home - I can remember it well - but hang on in there and think of the good things. You've got a great new job starting soon, you'll meet new people and have a ball. Keep your chin up, Love and hugs, Mandy :) xx

its just when i start this new job i dont know how long i will have to wait until i get paid, our friend still owes us money from when he was living with us and for the past week we have been eating crappy left overs! Ive got no make up and a wedding to go to tomoro (with no mascara!!!!) A new job that i have to wear suits for and its just getting all on top of me! Bills to pay, the rent was due yesterday and i dont get paid till Wednesday! Sorry its not as bad as what some people go through but it just builds up you know, its prob cos im tired!x

Ive P.M.ed you steph.xxx

Sending one BIG hug - remember that 'things can only get better' - although you may not think so now you're so stressed out. xxxxxxx

Steph, first a big ((((((hug)))))). Then tackle one thing, Why don't you know when you will get paid? When do you start the new job?/Finish the old one. Will you be monthly paid? Are you monthly paid now? Ann Glos

Jules, Please don't ever feel like that, there is always somebody on these boards who can talk to you/offer help. Please pm anyone if you feel desparate. Ann Glos

Thank you all of you! Ann i have just emailed my agency asking about the way the new company will do it. I know i will have 9 days paid to me by my current company and i will be paid monthly by my next company but i just need to know if i have to work a month then another month to get paid if you get what i mean. I let Aaron look after our money for a while and he got a bit spend happy and now we are right at our limit, i know everyone goes through it and i really dont mean to whinge and moan im just hormonal and its getting to me xx

sending lots of love and hugs....( if you put Vaseline on your eyelashes it makes them dark, and curly ).......Barbara.........

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{{{{ HUGS }}} Thats how I felt a few days ago too Elaine x

Steph, when you start on your first morning and report to personnel, as I assume you will have to, explain that you are reliant on being paid something at the end of the month on whatever day you are used to getting it, and ask if you can have some pay at that time. Most places will agree to this. Oh and do your household accounts together and don't let them become a bone of contention. (((hug))) xx Jules Just remember that you have lots of friends (and shoulders to lean on) on here. Ann Glos