General Chat

Hi everyone I just wanted to say thank you to all of you for your kind words, messages and support on Friday, sometimes things just build up and build up and i burst, but you were all so lovely! Aaron spoke to our estate agents who are going to check with the landlady to see if we can move our rent payng date back till when we both get paid every month, so that should really help to solve a few probs! Thanks Len, i emailed the agency i wen through to see if they can find out what date i will be paid. If i do have to wait a long time i will speak to personel in the new company and see if there is anything i can do. They have won an award for being one of the best employers and treating there staff well so fingers crossed they will help me out! Liz lol i always do that! And when it has finally dried out i always put the mascara brush in some face lotion to cream it up haha, it makes it last a tiny bit longer!! Thanks again everyone, and thanks Julie, Clare and Maddy for keeping me sanexxxxxx

BIGGY HUGS (((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))) hope things get better for you Deb

Steedie, a trick I was shown by an ex who taught me loads about saving money and stuff. If you have an old mascara, stand it in a cup of hot water and it will soften enough to do your lashes a few times more, and also, get some nutcrackers and try to pull the top bit out or carefully break the tube open near the opening, and you can get to the last bits in the bottom. Don't leave it open to the air cos bacteria can get in and multiply, but it will give you one more use at least. Start writing yourself a weekly budget or if you get paid monthly, both of you, do a massive shop of things you can freeze or tinned and dried stuff like pasta etc as soon as you get paid, so you will always have something to make a meal with. Oh and stay away from ebay! Good luck - have a lovely time at the wedding, Liz

When I used to employ people, we paid monthly, directly into bank accounts. If new employees previously had been on weekly pay-packets, I would help them get used to monthly pay by giving 'subs' out of the petty cash till they could manage. Maybe your new employer would do this? len

((( hug ))) for you, Steph ..... :-)

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Hugs and kisses to u my darlingxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Any time Little Lady!!!!! Len

Big ((((HUGS)))) Cuppa and a sit down will have you feeling better in no time..... Sometimes it's good to sit back and watch the world go by for a while, problems sort themselves out in time.... LOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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Ah Steph cheer up love. I know it is hard I remember what is was like when my hubby changed jobs once I rang the building society and explained the situ and they understood and we worked it out. I always remember the words my dad said to me 'don't worry something always turns up ' and you know he was right. In years to come you will look back and say yes it was hard but we worked together and are all the better for it. Your Aron sounds like my Derek he comes home and hands his wages over or we would have been in a mess he is terrible with money if it is there it has to be spent. You sound like you ahve a good head on your shoulders very sensible and it will all work out. Shame the person you lent money to can't pay you back. Take care Germaine x

Course you can gorgeous take care! Dxx

Aww Steph, you sound really low. You need some positive energy so sending you some with a great big ((((((HUG)))))) lots of love Sue x

(((hugs))) for you darling!! xx

Thanks Ann! i have the lip balm vaseline, will try that lol! My lovely friend Louise sent me a dress that she wore to a wedding a few weeks back! Its tight round the top and all loose and wavy at the time, to hide my jelly belly lol! And wearing a lovely shrug cardie that my Ma gave me, shes getting skinny so has given me some jeans and that bless her! All black too! xxx

Steph, I am sure that you will look lovely even without mascara, have you got any vaseline, makes your eyelashes shine. whata re you wearing? Colour etc? I hope you have a great time. Ann Glos

LOL thank you Nana, bless you!! Im gonna try and see if my friend will let me borrow her mascara tonight, she wont get out of bed till the afternoon and by that time we should be over theres to take them to the reception party so hopefully she will let me lol! xx

Hugs for ya Steph - I could send you a brand new mascara too but I'm sure the postman would be to late for you. Want to try it? Perhaps you could ask for an advance when you start your new job. Anna x

(((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))) from me too, Princess.THings will work out you'll see. All the Best, Sunny R (most of the time,but sometimes stressed myself)