General Chat

in simple terms there was no need for the BYE was there not very friendly, considering we are all meant to be friendly, any one else that says they are leaving has a 2 day period begging them not too no wonder the poor women felt not wanted, and ignored if you have a personal gripe wth me pm me i dont want to see any more upset so i will be deleting soon too

Translation available for all those who can't understand what Lemon is saying. I am her publicist. Now Lemon ..... about that fish dish you are going to advertise with us..... or was it the Tandoori Chicken dish. Oh just squirt the stuff anywhere you like.... just not in my eye....again! Aileen xxx

Oh I see its Merry Christmas and nothing changes on here;; I know I can reply on this thread as I know Jean/haddock ;;;lol But hey come on you lot its just common courtesy to sign of any thread with a known name or nondeplume;;; Babs Mwah Jeanette;;;; ~~~waves to Em and Lems ~~~~

pmsl Aileen T.O.R. ;>)) xx

Ladylol, Then why oh why didnt you just say that in the first place then?? eh?? instead of launching a thread that was bound to cause misinterpretation, upset and confusion why couldnt you pm Jeanette and say look suzz or whoever is upset at your remark... why did you put it i am sure jeanette would have obliged you with a polite answer.. no instead you brought it all into the open.. where half the people dont read the full story and organise the lynch mob post haste... Jeanette said bye.... so what? Suzz was upset... you talked to her... and...? If someone has something to say to someone on here or diagree with what they say then why dont they just blinking well talk to the person involved?

oooh I dinny do tandoori anymore it brings back memories of indigestion lol...but me pips still squirt :-0 Hi Babs me we darling been talking about you all day :-)

because iam not perfect em and like a lot of us when you see someone hurting you rush to there defence

Ohh wondered why my ears burning;; babs

Yep, away until 16th. When is the panto, haven't been watching sorry. Ann Glos

well i understand that ladylol, but i thought by now people on here would have learned their lesson and practise a little restraint... er.. unlike me who has just blown my gasket.. :((

Hi Lem's Meercat an Em did someone say Tandori mmmmmmmmm

I and it wisny just yer ears under discussion Babsy Mallone.....I love Em when her face gets all red and her nose steams and her belly wobbles

it wasnt just the one remark either there were a few , no need im upset that i have brought these boards down today i am off now not ignoring anyone

Ann please return 24 hours early - you are needed on 15th

Hi Gwen my feets are cold

Lem im frozen all over ,,gotto go out tonight right out of my depth a Ladies night (not that sort) lots posh lot sittin round talking utter rubbish Oh meercat korma oh yes please

You have not bought the boards down Puss. Don't you DARE think it for a minute. You have the right to say your piece and Suzanne had the right to say hers. We all pay the same membership. AND as for goading !!!! LOL!!!! I see LOTS going on - on many threads at the moment.

I'm only going to add one more thing to this stupid row today, because frankly its all really tedious. Why is it, that the supposed hurt feelings of a newbie are once again seen to be far more important than the feelings of an established and well liked member ? No, I'm not trying to say that newbies aren't welcome - of course they are. I make no excuse for favouring people I know (human nature I think) - they've earned that trust. But I've been chatting all afternoon to someone who is a relative newbie, and is now a good friend. We were all newbies once, we all felt a little out of place, and we all had to learn to fit in, not throw a wobbly at the first sign of something we didn't like. In my mind, If I joined a new site, I'd spend a while getting used to the way things worked, not wade in and tell them all they were doing it wrong, as I've often seen on here. I'm rambling, so I'll shut up now. Thank you... and goodnight.

I'll take Korma, Tandoori, anything that's going

Puss I made my comment of 'bye' on Suzanne's thread 1) because I get fed up at all of this drama queen stuff, and 2) because it seemed that her thread was aimed at me.......which was later confirmed by the message you sent me from her. My thread was aimed at all members, and I cannot be held reponsible for the fact that she took it personally. I have still not had a satisfactory explanation as to why Suzanne thought I was having a dig at her.