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What makes a vegetarian

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UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 8 Sep 2012 23:54

I´m often intrigued as I could not ,not eat meat, I was put on this earth as a carnivore ..I also have the problem that I don´t really like the green stuff (is that why I don´t like the colour or was it my dislike of green stopped me eating veg?.

I am actually very thoughtful about what I eat ie tuna friendly, and make up free etc .
I appreciate true vegetarians but I have to wonder why?

GlitterBaby

GlitterBaby Report 9 Sep 2012 00:00

I used to work with a girl who claimed to be vegetarian but would eat fish

Did she not realise that she was not a true veggie but a demi vegetarian

Suzanne

Suzanne Report 9 Sep 2012 00:13

my daughter"s childhood friend claimed at the age of 10 that she was a vegetarian ,she came to our house a few wks later to a bbq and ate countless beef burgers,shes 22 now and is a real vegi. :-D

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 9 Sep 2012 00:16

Glitter I know many who eat fish for what ever their reasons,, then you have the true who if it has eyes they won´t eat it, and then you have the mega who say if it came from as living thing we can´t touch it....so they don´t drink milk or put marg or butter on their what ever bread because it came from a living thing

UzziAndHerDogs

UzziAndHerDogs Report 9 Sep 2012 00:19

Suzanne I would be a real vegi .honest If I did like veg and if I didn´t like what I was put on this earth for

GlitterBaby

GlitterBaby Report 9 Sep 2012 00:21

Must say I am not a great meat eater and prefer my veg.

SheilaSomerset

SheilaSomerset Report 9 Sep 2012 00:23

We're actually omnivores, not carnivores, and it's all a matter of choice....

For some, the cruelty issue, some just don't like meat, some eat fish, some don't, and some don't eat any animal derivatives including dairy products.

I'm not a veggie, I like meat but I couldn't live without veg and fruit too!

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond

Purple **^*Sparkly*^** Diamond Report 9 Sep 2012 02:24

My o.h.'s stepmum is a vegan and it has meant that o.h.'s dad who married her in later years (late 40's after o.h.'s Mum died) had to change his diet totally. If we go out for family celebrations we have to check out restaurants first to make sure they can accommodate step mum's diet altho o.h.'s dad will eat normally when out and about. It makes life very difficult tho. She also won't wear leather and only natural fibres like cotton, no silk. She had three young sons when o.h.'s dad met her (divorced I think) and they all three were diagnosed as malnourished and had to have supplements and things and she now has osteoporosis and other health problems because she wasn't very good at getting the right vegan diet for them all but now she is much better and eats lots of things, altho the damage is done. She is in her 70s now.

My son took his ex girlfriend's son out the other day (they still stay in touch, man and boy) They passed by a chip stall on the market and son asked if the lad wanted a snack, he said yes and then when given the chips looked at them and asked what they were cooked in, when told beef dripping said Oh I can't eat these, I am vegetarian now. His mother was always vegetarian but the child used to eat other things, obviously now he is 11 he has decided or otherwise to become strict vegetarian.


I like meat too much and as long as it's humanely slaughtered and reared well (as far as I can check) I see no reason to stop, altho I am cutting back on red meat and eat a much larger proportion of veg to the small portion of meat on my plate.


Lizx

LadyScozz

LadyScozz Report 9 Sep 2012 02:25

Friend of ours was a vegan. No meat, no dairy.

That was her choice. But! That didn't give her the right to NAG the rest of us, which she did. She was often invited to our house and was given a big bowl of salad/veggies, but would go on and on about what the rest of us were eating. OH took great delight in picking up bones and gnawing on them, making weird animal noises! He also told her he got upset at the screaming noise carrots made when he pulled them out of the veggie garden.

We have many friends who are vegetarian. Some have tried to call us carnivores. We tell them we are omnivores.

We have a balanced diet.

Penny

Penny Report 9 Sep 2012 07:32

My cousin was married to a girl that started out as a vegetarian. I say started out. she then decided to go vegan and did so with knobs on, to the point of obsession.

My aunt tried really hard to accomodate her diet but the girl not only preached about how wrong everyone else was, she took to carrying her own crockery and cutlery around with her , in case my aunts had ever come into contact with meat or animal products.

It split the couple up, after 3 years of marriage, poor bloke just couldn't live with the obsessive behaviour.

I dont have a problem with vegetarians, some what I would call 'mainline' vegetrian food is lovely. I make veg lasagna in pref to meat, I use Quorn and make meat free quiches and pizza's.

Live and let live, I respect that people have a right to choose what they eat, but the same cuts both ways.

JoyBoroAngel

JoyBoroAngel Report 9 Sep 2012 08:44

i think the word madness comes to mind
strange how most veggies are wearing leather shoes

Julia

Julia Report 9 Sep 2012 09:11

Morning All
My Dad has been a vegetarian most of his life, that is from the age of six.
From that age he had the proverbial 'bad step-mother', who didn't give him any meat because she thought it was too good for him.
Fast forward to WW2, and he was offered meat for the first time,and could not eat it. So he exchanged his meat ration with another sailor for his sweet ration, and elder sister had chocolate and sweets throughout the war whenever Dad was on leave.
He never foistered the idea of vegerianism on any of us children, and we have all grown up eating meat.
I think he has just got used to it over the years, though he does eat fish and cheese, to make up for the loss of the meat.
He once said that the only time he has been tempted was, when he and mum used to go caravaning, and walking to the shower blocks in the mornings, he could smell bacon frying.
I do not think it has done him any harm not eating meat. At just over 90, I have never know him to have any illnesses. Yes he has the usual at that age, blood pressure, bladder and now memory loss and a little forgetfulness. But non vegetarians get those things at that age.
It makes you wonder, doesn't it.

Julia in Derbyshire

Wend

Wend Report 9 Sep 2012 09:16

Aw Uzzi, I was going to give you some of my green beans, courgettes and cabbages when I see you soon. How about red cabbages - do you like those?

:-D

Wend

Wend Report 9 Sep 2012 09:21

Morning Julia - I get all 'the usual' things that your Dad gets, but I'm much younger LOL.

I'm a meat eater, but I could happily live on veggies if I had to.

maggiewinchester

maggiewinchester Report 9 Sep 2012 10:00

My daughter and her (then) boyfriend lived with me for a whle. She was, at the time, vegetarian, he was vegan.
They had to shop & cook for themselves!!

My nephew's partner was also vegatarian.
However, when she had a baby, nephew insisted the child was brought up eating meat.
Nephew's partner has since been diagnosed with Crohn's disease - so being vegetarian was/is the best thing for her :-D

Sharron

Sharron Report 9 Sep 2012 11:03

I have been a vegetarian for well over thirty years,long enough not to mention it any more. It is just something I accomodate.

My reasoning was that I would not like to be on the recieving end,so to speak,of meat eating. It would be ideal to be vegan but all I can do is my best and if everyone else did the same it might be a happier world,who knows?

The conversations which usually start with either"I don't eat much meat", or "I like my meat" go no further with me any more,have heard them too often.

Likewise,I have heard the people doing the screaming carrot routine countless times. I have no idea what they achieve from doing this but assume it fills some want in them so indulge them quietly.Why not? I don't mock them because they choose to eat dead flesh.

MarionfromScotland

MarionfromScotland Report 9 Sep 2012 11:26

I'm not vegetarian.I eat chicken pork and fish thats about it.
I love most veg and eat vegetarian haggis.

I don't agree with animal testing for cosmetics etc,but under stand why SOME testing is done for medical research .I would rather it was done on selected humans ;-).

I dont like spicey food so I am limited eating veggie food when out as a lot of it is spiced.

I wear leather but if the animal has been killed for food before hand,thats not so bad.
I do not agree with animals being bred for fur.

Marion

Island

Island Report 9 Sep 2012 12:39

I beats me why some meat eaters feel the need to interogate those who don't :-S

Why should anyone have to explain their choice of diet? :-S

A "vegetarian" does not eat fish, fowl or flesh.

Excluding all animal based products is "vegan".

"Demi vegetarian" is balderdash. You eat fish and or chicken you ain't vegetarian! Why the need for a label? :-S

OCD is OCD, the obsession/s can be about anything.

I have yet to meet a vegetarian who eats shoes, save for goats maybe :-S :-D

Wend, lob us a bag of veg :-D :-D

Sharron, I completely agree. Can I come for me tea? :-D :-D

Rambling

Rambling Report 9 Sep 2012 13:00

I'm a vegetarian, and no I don't wear leather or have a handbag made of it , or fur trims blah de blah....

I have been a veggie for 30 odd years, closer to 40 really...I try my best because for me it is a moral choice... I believe 'farm' animals, all animals have as much right to a decent life and death as I do for the cossetted little pooches we all love, if you can eat one you can eat the other otherwise it's just hypocrisy....and yes sometimes I have been a hypocrite and no one could beat me up over it more than I do myself lol.

I am not telling anyone else what to do, but I equally don't expect to be seen as weird for making the choice ...every time I went in the corner shop at Christmas time I was interrogated, "Yes but what do you eat at Christmas" FGS...I was always tempted to reply " what the **** does anyone eat if they don't eat meat...I chew the wallpaper of course" :-| :-|

There is of course the argument that a demi veg makes that if the animals have a good life span, and live naturally and die humanely that it's ok, and that fish being caught do at least have a chance of escape ...as opposed to an animal that has none... which is why I have less problem with people who insist on eating on eating organic meat, or who hunt and kill their own dinner..rather than someone who never puts any thought into how the animal has lived, and would be unable to watch in an abbattoir because they are "too squeamish" ( I've heard it sooo many times "I would have to stop eating meat if I had to see that") ...

Incidently being "squeamish" is the insult levelled at many a veggie...as if we are meak little people with no b****. either that or the 'coup de grace' is "Hitler was a vegetarian you know"...Yes I do know that, ... but not for the reasons I am , so there :-D :-P :-|

Sharron

Sharron Report 9 Sep 2012 13:01

Feel free Island.

Shall we have a vege rasher pudding or maybe a Quorn steak strip and mushroom pie?