General Chat

Please could i have your thoughts and prayers Jans cousin had abad accident yesterday,and has lost her foot her hubby is so upset and they have two very small children and she is in alot of pain
Ilonka we are sending you our thoughts and prayers what terrable thing to happen to you
Thinking of you Jan en Joycex

My thoughts are with the family

Deb

my thoughts and prayers, are with jans, family, x

Hello Dutch.

Thoughts are with the family. What a horrible thing to have happen.

jude xx

Sending love and prayers to Jans family such a very sad time for them ,
will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers

love Jean xx

Dutch what a terrible thing. I send my love to all the family

Sylvia xx

Joyce, I am sorry to hear this awful news about Ilonka, I hope she will find strength to make a good recovery for the sake of herself and her family. I Once her husband gets over the shock he will be able to sort out ways to help her adjust so that life is good for them again, it will take time but with the love and support of all the family, Ilonka will be as good a Mummy as before, just a bit different.

My thoughts will be with you all

Lizxxx

Please could we wish Ilonkas family safe journey as they are travelling to be by her side ,her Dad,sister,and brother her mum cant be with her as shes blind ,and the weather here is terrable and not realy good to drive in but the family have to be there it will take about 3 hours ,her hubby is with the little ones as far as we know as they live realy far away from the hospital were there mummy is,prayers are needed for please thank you Dutch en Jan en family

So sorry to hear the news, my thoughts to the family,
Liz

Sending my love, prayers and goodwishes to Ilonka, bless her...and love to her hubby, children and all the family to help get them through this awful time...
Love to you and Jan also xxxx

Joyce P

I hope that she will have the strength to deal with the loss of her foot and the shock from the accident. I am sure, once they are over the shock the family will rally and she will be able to recover I hope and lead a normal life.

How awful. Hope she can make a good recovery.
Sending some (((((((hugs))))))

Cath xx

I had a quick word with our Caz last evening, caught her at mealtime so only spoke for a few minutes, she said Ilonka and her husband have a working boat and that's where the accident happened. I expect the accident and disability will impact on their work/lifestyle too which is very hard for them.
I hope the family got through safely and Ilonka is holding up, she will need her loved ones around her and her children will be so frightened, with Daddy in the middle wanting to care for them but be with his wife. What a cruel world. I hope things go ok for them and Ilonka will get lots of support to eventually be mobile and well again.

Lizxx

Morning all,Liz yes they do have working boat its quite large about the length of 15 houses or more Peter her hubby build it himself with the help of his brother, we are still waiting on news from the family just pray she will be ok as its also the shock of what happen to her. and thank you all for your kind words her little ones must be wondering were there Mummy is
Dutch en Jan en Familyx

Ilonkas brother works in the same firm as Jan,and told him his sister is losing her leg the family are so upset over this it was bad enough them taking her foot off but they decide it would have to be the leg as well,we cant even begin to think whats shes going thru and the little ones are asking for there Mummy ,how distressing for there Daddy
Dutch en Jan en Family

I have replied on Jean's thread Joyce, how very sad for them all.

Dutch, how awful for the whole family. So sad. God bless them all, and the little children asking for their mummy. I cant imagine what they are going through, I will be thinking of them along with everyone else on here xxx

Hi Joyce, it's awful that Ilonka has to lose her leg as well, poor woman, she must be devastated and in shock. I hope she will be ok eventually and can adjust to the loss mentally. Hopefully the thought of her little ones will help her be strong and the same for Peter.
Will try and talk with you soon, o.h. is off work at the mo, back on Weds pm and Thursday am, maybe Friday am. You can guess who is having to do all the shopping and organising, and the rest of the chores.... he is poorly, has cold now and don't we know it?

Take care, all positive thoughts to Ilonka and her family.

Lizxxx

Thanks Liz ,Peter took the little ones age 3and 1yr old into see there Mummy and the little boy who is three ask her when are you coming home ,she will be in hospital for three weeks and is going to have leg fitted to she has to learn to walk on it and Peter has told her she dose,nt work outside on the boat anymore ,he has taken time off and got someone else in to work on it Ilonka passed her exams when she was in her teens to be Captain of aboat .it must be heart breaking seeing her hubby and children knowing she wont be home for xmas the family still cant believe shes losing her leg talk to you soon
Love Dutchx
ps got more snow

Thursday Ilonka will be having her leg off so please could we have postive thoughts for her that the op and everything goes well,she wont be home for three weeks so she wont be home for xmas
Good Luck Love were praying everything goes well for you tomorrow and you make speedy recovery to be back home with your family
Love Joyce enJan en Familyx