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Well fingers crossed that the opertion goes ahead tomorrow as planned,as Val is getting fed up of going the hospital only to be sent home again will keep you updated as to what happends,and thank you for your messages
Dutchx

Good luck to Val, that op better go ahead today, or the poor woman will be so let down. If it doesn't happen today I would be inclined to write to the newspapers about it, name and shame the hospital.

Keep us posted Joyce

Lizxx

Will do Liz will text John later on today
Dutchxx

Thinking of Val this morning and hoping the operation goes ahead. Don't know what the hospital is doing but it needs to get itself sorted, the poor woman can't go on like this much longer. I agree with Liz something needs to be done.

Caz xx

Have just text John Vals hubby she back home again told her to come back on thursday,John said its just one excuse after another i told him he wants to go to the papers its disgrave the way shes getting treated,i saw her in july and she looks awful and so tired i have ask John to let me no how she gets on thursday its realy not fair what there doing
Dutch

I'm speechless!.

Caz

I cant believe they have done this again to Val. what excuses did they give this time I wonder. This needs to be taken further, its like torture to poor Val.
Keep your chin up Val
Sylvia xx

dont worry dutch,a hernia is quite a common problem,nothing serious about them,my dad and brother have had hernias and they have lived to tell the tale.xxx

This is a disgrace after all Val has to cope with besides the hernia. How can sheb be expected to keep positive and ready for the op when they keep messing her around, is beyond me.

I can't believe there can be any good reasons why this op wasn't done ages before now, instead of all these delays

Wish her luck Joyce, hope you are ok,
it's a nightmare here lol

Lizxx

Suzanne shes been told theres risk as she had op for bowl cancer and had abag fitted,but the hernia is pushing the bag out the hernia is the size of 7mths pergrant women,its from thr groin and up under her breast nearly one docter said they were going to move the bag to the other side and then another one said no its ok were it is,but this has been going on for 18mths,and shes told them i would rather go with the risk than be like this for the rest of my live,she needs both hands to lift it so she can walk which now its all most impossable,she looks so tired and ill i hope they do it on thursday or if they cant operate why not tell her instead of fobbing her off all the time,will keep you up todate how it goes on thursday
Dutchx

I'm thinking of Val Joyce and praying they will do the operation tomorrow for her, I don't understand why they get her in then send her home with no explanation. John must be fed up now, he should take some action if they do it again tomorrow.

Caz xx

Hope the op goes on today and makes Val's life easier and more comfortable.

Lizxx

Just spoke to John i think Val has final her the op he had to ring at 12.30 to tell him when he could go in,so will update you when i know more ,and thank you for your surpport
Dutchxx

Is there any news yet Joyce? I am keeping fingers crossed it had gone ahead and she is ok.

Caz xx

Hi Dutch
I have just read your thread about your friend Val.
I do hope all went to plan today and sending positive thoughts for her recovary.
Teresax

I have just seen this Joyce and was coming on to tell her husband to .... REFUSE to take her home again. that was a disgusting way to treat a patient... whatever she/he is in for.
Hope all went well.
Deanna XX

PS... Allan said thank you for the lovely card, sorry for hijacking your thread love.
Deanna XX

Hi Dutch, been thinking about Val, and hoping the op went well.
I send my love to her and wish her well, bless her she has been through so much
Love Sylvia xx

Hope everything has gone ok for Val and she will soon be feeling lots better and can get her life back on track.

Lizxx

John has just text me Val had her op it took 10hours but shes ok ,just thought i would let you all no before i go back to bed and thank you ,it does help being there for others even though you did,nt no the lady in question
Love Dutchxx

Thank goodness the ops over for Val, that was such a big op. for her. I pray she is ok.
Please would you give her and John all our love Dutch
Thinking of Val, John and family
Love Sylvia xx