General Chat

Hi Dutch,
all the very best to your friend...i really do not know why hospitals allow herhias to get so big before they operate,it must be so uncomfortable for the person being in this situation....xx

Hope things are going well for Val and she will soon be home again and adapting to things so she can enjoy a better quality of life for her and John.

Lizxx

Thank goodness it's over and she is ok. Now she can get her life back and enjoy her life with John. Please give them my best wishes Joyce and I will still be thinking of her as she recovers.

Caz xx

Thank goodness the ops over for Val, that was such a big op. for her. I pray she is ok.
Please would you give her and John all our love Dutch
Thinking of Val, John and family
Love Sylvia xx

John has just text me Val had her op it took 10hours but shes ok ,just thought i would let you all no before i go back to bed and thank you ,it does help being there for others even though you did,nt no the lady in question
Love Dutchxx

Hope everything has gone ok for Val and she will soon be feeling lots better and can get her life back on track.

Lizxx

Hi Dutch, been thinking about Val, and hoping the op went well.
I send my love to her and wish her well, bless her she has been through so much
Love Sylvia xx

I have just seen this Joyce and was coming on to tell her husband to .... REFUSE to take her home again. that was a disgusting way to treat a patient... whatever she/he is in for.
Hope all went well.
Deanna XX

PS... Allan said thank you for the lovely card, sorry for hijacking your thread love.
Deanna XX

Hi Dutch
I have just read your thread about your friend Val.
I do hope all went to plan today and sending positive thoughts for her recovary.
Teresax

Is there any news yet Joyce? I am keeping fingers crossed it had gone ahead and she is ok.

Caz xx

Just spoke to John i think Val has final her the op he had to ring at 12.30 to tell him when he could go in,so will update you when i know more ,and thank you for your surpport
Dutchxx

Hope the op goes on today and makes Val's life easier and more comfortable.

Lizxx

I'm thinking of Val Joyce and praying they will do the operation tomorrow for her, I don't understand why they get her in then send her home with no explanation. John must be fed up now, he should take some action if they do it again tomorrow.

Caz xx

Suzanne shes been told theres risk as she had op for bowl cancer and had abag fitted,but the hernia is pushing the bag out the hernia is the size of 7mths pergrant women,its from thr groin and up under her breast nearly one docter said they were going to move the bag to the other side and then another one said no its ok were it is,but this has been going on for 18mths,and shes told them i would rather go with the risk than be like this for the rest of my live,she needs both hands to lift it so she can walk which now its all most impossable,she looks so tired and ill i hope they do it on thursday or if they cant operate why not tell her instead of fobbing her off all the time,will keep you up todate how it goes on thursday
Dutchx

This is a disgrace after all Val has to cope with besides the hernia. How can sheb be expected to keep positive and ready for the op when they keep messing her around, is beyond me.

I can't believe there can be any good reasons why this op wasn't done ages before now, instead of all these delays

Wish her luck Joyce, hope you are ok,
it's a nightmare here lol

Lizxx

dont worry dutch,a hernia is quite a common problem,nothing serious about them,my dad and brother have had hernias and they have lived to tell the tale.xxx

I cant believe they have done this again to Val. what excuses did they give this time I wonder. This needs to be taken further, its like torture to poor Val.
Keep your chin up Val
Sylvia xx

I'm speechless!.

Caz

Have just text John Vals hubby she back home again told her to come back on thursday,John said its just one excuse after another i told him he wants to go to the papers its disgrave the way shes getting treated,i saw her in july and she looks awful and so tired i have ask John to let me no how she gets on thursday its realy not fair what there doing
Dutch

Thinking of Val this morning and hoping the operation goes ahead. Don't know what the hospital is doing but it needs to get itself sorted, the poor woman can't go on like this much longer. I agree with Liz something needs to be done.

Caz xx