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Can you divulge Gypsywoman, or, if it is too delicate, please PM me to share
Julia in Derbyshire

Nasty pm's are wrong regardless of who sends them and the sender should be banned. IMO. We should also be allowed to put them on the boards for all to read, then maybe people would think twice about sending them. xx

Julia,
No offense but I think i'm gonna keep it to myself at the moment. I may be wrong about the sender and don't want to accuse anyone of anything unless im sure :-)

Pat

Posh,
I'd put it on anyway to be honest. It'd be worth the 'holiday' and Idon't 'need' this site to live my life :-)

Pat

BC...Ha Ha said the Clown :))
That was a song.

Aha Marion....oh well, and there was me thinking I had been particularly witty....lol....

i must admit
i would be to embarrassed to display the nasty dirty pm

i got from somebody on GR
i had him blocked

though it was a long time ago now


edited
i did show those i consider my friends it

The problem is, that 'strange' pm's: calling people 'beaches', or similar; saying nothing but 'ha ha', would be very difficult to report as nothing has really be said that could be construed as offensive. Having GR block 'strange' people is probably the best method.

As they say, 'Do not feed the trolls'.

Understand what you mean Gypsywoman. No offence taken
Julia in Derbyshire

I think I would too Gypsywoman...Like you I have a life other than this site. :-)

What's the matter Carol. Is it a case of selective reading, what the eye doesn't see, the brain does not have to think about it.
Julia in Derbyshire

Laughter is the only thing you can do when you get such stupid PMs.......what does she think it will achieve.......that you will fret and worry.......no...... fgs whoever it is ought to get a grip on life .....

Good on you tanianz....

I think that if you receive a nasty PM you should tell people. You should tell everyone. You should start a thread about it!

If vulnerable people receive a PM and feel totally victimised think how awful that would be. Whereas if the said vulnerable people have read threads like this one talking about nasty PMs they will not feel singled out and picked on. So ultimately it's a good thing to share it.

So - share your PMs. If you can't/don't want to share the content, fair enough, but at least let others know that you have received one!

Jill

I think I'd have to ask the poster to come nearer the screen and kiss it........}


nasty Pm's can be deleted at the click of a mouse and aint worth feeding the senders dumb brain.by giving it screen space.