General Chat

I think I'd have to ask the poster to come nearer the screen and kiss it........}


nasty Pm's can be deleted at the click of a mouse and aint worth feeding the senders dumb brain.by giving it screen space.

I think that if you receive a nasty PM you should tell people. You should tell everyone. You should start a thread about it!

If vulnerable people receive a PM and feel totally victimised think how awful that would be. Whereas if the said vulnerable people have read threads like this one talking about nasty PMs they will not feel singled out and picked on. So ultimately it's a good thing to share it.

So - share your PMs. If you can't/don't want to share the content, fair enough, but at least let others know that you have received one!

Jill

Laughter is the only thing you can do when you get such stupid PMs.......what does she think it will achieve.......that you will fret and worry.......no...... fgs whoever it is ought to get a grip on life .....

Good on you tanianz....

What's the matter Carol. Is it a case of selective reading, what the eye doesn't see, the brain does not have to think about it.
Julia in Derbyshire

I think I would too Gypsywoman...Like you I have a life other than this site. :-)

Understand what you mean Gypsywoman. No offence taken
Julia in Derbyshire

The problem is, that 'strange' pm's: calling people 'beaches', or similar; saying nothing but 'ha ha', would be very difficult to report as nothing has really be said that could be construed as offensive. Having GR block 'strange' people is probably the best method.

As they say, 'Do not feed the trolls'.

i must admit
i would be to embarrassed to display the nasty dirty pm

i got from somebody on GR
i had him blocked

though it was a long time ago now


edited
i did show those i consider my friends it

Aha Marion....oh well, and there was me thinking I had been particularly witty....lol....

BC...Ha Ha said the Clown :))
That was a song.

Posh,
I'd put it on anyway to be honest. It'd be worth the 'holiday' and Idon't 'need' this site to live my life :-)

Pat

Julia,
No offense but I think i'm gonna keep it to myself at the moment. I may be wrong about the sender and don't want to accuse anyone of anything unless im sure :-)

Pat

Nasty pm's are wrong regardless of who sends them and the sender should be banned. IMO. We should also be allowed to put them on the boards for all to read, then maybe people would think twice about sending them. xx

Can you divulge Gypsywoman, or, if it is too delicate, please PM me to share
Julia in Derbyshire

*dubious....I got a PM last week with the words 'ha ha' on it......can't work that one out as I am seldom on here!! lol BC

I got a dodgy pm last night to - No abusive might add. But lets just say it was very interesting :-)

Well Carol, I was one of the three people that Mel singled out to send a PM to yesterday. It was sent on her husband's account ' ? Man ', and yes it was there sat on my computer all afternoon, until CarolB told on here a method of getting rid on PM's without opening them. I followed the instructions and got rid of it without opening it.
At the same time I posted a message to her on the board telling her not to send me any more PM's. To which her reply was to ridicule and pour derision on me by talking to me as if I was an educationally challenged 5 year old. She said I "should look at the contents (that what's inside)", to quote her.
And, this is not the first time she has sent me PM's. During a spat on here at Easter, the most religious time of the Christian calender, she PM'd me, twice, using one of her many non de plumes, demanding I divulge someones name, which I did not.
Sweet innnocent Mel, I B****y well think not
Julia in Derbyshire

If I ever get a nasty pm, I'd tell everyone too:))

If you get pm's from someone you dont wish to have a conversation with, just do as a prominent member on here does...........

get GR to BLOCK'EM!!!

Bob

I feel left out too Esta :-( pmsl