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From mums funeral. Couldn't cry felt the tears but then nothing. Now feeling really empty.

Malc
I understand how you're feeling.
Sometimes everything will be overwhelming, at other times strangely calm.
It's all part of the way we cope at such times.

My thoughts are with you.

Gwyn

Oh Malc, it's only to be expected hun, take each day as it comes and remember the good times with your Mum.

Thinking of you.

Tina x

Malc, you may well feel that for a long time.....I did...but it will pass so just let the feelings come as and when they do...it is different for everyone, don't be afraid
to go with the grief when it hits.

(((hugs))) to you and yours

Rose xx

Before I suffered bereavement myself Malc, I was amazed at how calm most chief mourners were, until it happened to me.......I think you want the day to go as well as possible, to say goodbye with dignity......and dare I say it, a kind of relief that the wait for the funeral is over.......the time for crying will come.......x

Hi Malc,
I feel for you, I lost my mum & dad within fifteen months of each other, I think I spent about four years in a daze, you never forget it just gets easier to remember.
Take one day at a time, there will be some good and some bad, but you will get through.
Gill x

Malc

I was the same at my mums, that was in the march and had to be strong for the kids

took till the christmas day before did cry

just be you and one day it will come out

Steve

malc cant even imagine how your felling babes

gentle hugs for u and jackie babes

luv stray
xxx

Thinking of you xxxx

Malc, everyone's grief and they way they respond to it is unique, whether you shed tears or not,you have lost a loved one who will always be in your thoughts throughout your life. Take Care.x

Take each day as it comes Malc. Hugs for you.xx

All normal feelings Malc take time for yourself now.

We lost our SIL and then 6 weeks later a nephew that we had hardly seen for years I wept buckets at his funeral all the feelings I had held in six weeks previously. Now 18 months later I find it hard to talk of my SIL without getting upset I miss him so much.

Love Linda x

WE ARE ALL HERE MALC,
MOST OF US KNOW WHAT YOUR FEELING
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Malc, sending you all my best wishes xx

xx Jill

we all grieve differently mate.sending you gentle hugsxxxxx

sending you a ((((hug)))) xx

Take care Malc ,thinking of you .Jean

one day at a time Malc...x

thinking of you..

love n hugs

lynn x

Your mum is at peace Malc, now is the time to grieve her passing but celebrate her life, our thoughts are with you and your family

Go with what as and when you feel Malc,,its a feeling unique to everyone one of us,,and hope it serves you well to remember all that was good,and what was had,,,,