General Chat

You are definitely not stupid - it's called being impetuous and young!! We have all done things then a couple of seconds later regretted it. I hope you and Aaron get things sorted out. Love Lx

Steedie, you have every right to stand up for yourself, if he is still a little upset tonight, try and point out that what she is saying is upsetting you, and that you think enough of him to want to stand up for him as well, that should get his ego going, and tell him your sorry for reading his personal emails, but you think it is unfair that he is directing his anger or upset at you when she is the one causing him and his parents this kind of greaf. What ever happens I hope he realises how lucky he is to have a woman who stands up for him rather than one who is saying really bad things. Bev

Steedie, you can always use mailwasher to bounce the emails back to her, you can still read them first, this will make her think that your email address has changed. Good luck, hope it gets sorted out. I know your upset but you shouldn't have to put up with the slagging off and neither should Aaron's parents. Ros

thanks everyone, he still hasnt text me back, am supposed to be going over his tonight so will see how things go

steedie i would leave it and get him to ring you.let him cool off abitxxxxx(:

Honey - will ring you when I'm on the train... unless you're busy in which case text me! love becx

YES I WILL MEET YOU DONT BE SILLY I 'PEED' OFF AT ALL ITS JUST THAT SHE WILL KEEP ON TRYING TO TALK TO ME AND ACT LIKE A MUG I JUST DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER OK SO STOP BEING SILLY JUST PROMISE YOU WONT EMAIL HER ANYMORE PLZ AND YOU OWE ME TONIGHT ..I LOVE YOU

hes ok with me!! thank god! thanks for your help guys xxxxx

I am glad he still wants to see you, he would be silly not to so chin up and smile. :)) Bev

Aww Steph, that was a real test in your relationship, and you both came out of it OK. So put that down to experience and think positive things now! Do you hear me? Glenys x x - and one for Aaron

Gelnys yes i do, and in future i shall never be so hot headed! although i wasnt even rude to the nasty little cow....But BREATH IN! LOL xx

Well done, you - and another thing (lecture lecture ......) -remember, feel sorry for the girl. After all, who does Aaron want to be with now? Certainly not her. Give yourself that satisfaction. Glenys x

absolutley! her loss is my gain! xx

glad you got it sorted. If she keeps phoning Aaron he ought to do something about it and not just ignore it. Telephone companies will only act if you tell the police (even if they won't do anything) Had a similar thing happen to a friend (male) and he wouldn't do anything about it for ages, despite us and a cousin of the woman involved telling him to. She only stopped after he threatened to call the police. Ros

Steedie, I am pleased for you ;-D (big beam) Liz x

If shes that bad to his parents, why has he never done it. Best form of defence is attack. Tell him he should have been defending his parents!!! AND dont bother telling him that DEANNA told you to say that! COS I DIDNT ! :-)))

So I didnt get into trouble then? Deanna

steedie dont beat yourself up over his exs problem, you reacted like anyone of us, ive bit my lip a lot, and now wish id reacted like i did when i was 21, theres a few women would have got emails , though in this case it wasnt their fault it was my mans fault for being weak and thinking because hes not there in person its not like cheating, steedie im sure arron will be fine with you, let us know, i think you done him a favour

he was perfect last night, but when i met him he was on the phone to her (from a phonebox as he has changed his mobile number cos of her) to find out this big thing that she needed to tell him. Well it was an absolutley DISGUSTING lie, the girl is gone in the head, it upset him alot (what she said) and thats when i explained why i did it, he didnt understand till we got home and he read the email she sent and wehat i sent, he seemed really touched with the things that i said...so stuff you lisa you cow hes mine now!!! haha He asked me also to block her addy, i wasnt able to so what i have done is clicked that her addy is a junk mail addy and set it so all junk mail gets deleted as soon as it arrives!! So now, his number is changed His home number is changed She cant email him....now all she can do is text his mum or his sister, and i dont think shes gonna dare to do that again!!! So we are back to being all mushy kissy and in love now, so we still havent had our first row! xxxxxx

so pleased your o.k now.i think you deserve extra valentines gifts this year so tell him steedie auntie lisa has spoken.xxxxxxxxxx(: