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Thanks for your message of support. Ring your Mum; you won't worry her (that's what Mums are for!!) She will want to make sure you're ok; can you go & see her if she's near you? Please see someone - you need to talk to an expert in trauma, I can't imagine how appalling it was for you. Take lots of care, (((((((((HUGS)))))))))) Joan.

i phoned them from my mobile, i talked a little bit, thank you for the advice xx

i actually live in essex- thurrock, i commute into london. its not a wonderful area im in, the neighbours arent 'neighbourly! The samaritans did kind of help, they too advised prof. help, i just want a hug from my mummy, but she feels awful that she was stuck in kent yesterday n couldnt come and see me, i dont want to make her feel worse xxx

Steph! If you want me to come and stay with you just let me know! lots of love becx

Had me shower, welllll nearly 2 actually, l dropped the shower head, having got all dried and in me dressing gown - the dg,floor,walls and my face got soaked!!! lol Pleased you have phoned the samaritans - do you have hobbies, can you go out for a walk, how about making an appointment with your doctor for next week or even ask if you can talk to him on the phone now, we can do that here! make yourself busy, plan a nice meal for Aaron tonight.Any friends that can come over?????????? Put lively bouncy music on and boogy:o))) Take care - l will look in again in about an hour:o)) jude sarf wales xx

Steedie, please talk, we are here, my love, don't be alone right now xxxx

to be honest i dont wnt to go anywhere, im not afraid too or anything just dont want to go and be with people, but then i dont want to be on my own, i dont feel alone now though, its wierd, im lonley but then im not cos i have all of you xx

I know what you mean, today is collecting of thoughts and reflecting on what happened yesterday,Tomorrow you will be one more step away from what happened.Do what is best for you, keep talking on here, you are alive, Steedie, don't stop talking. Heather

Heathers right, you have to do whats best for you, l can understand what you are saying as well, cause you know there is loads of help on here and Bec's offering to come and stay with you, wow !!!!!cyber friends - what would we all do without them:o)) jude sarf wales - l must hoover, thats if it will work!!!! xx

Steedie, It was terrible for you to be caught up in what happened yesterday. I'm so glad you weren't hurt. Jeff was also very shaken by the wounded people and bodies in bags he saw, but just so thankful he and his Dad weren't on the previous train! He works in the King's Cross area, so he'll have to continue going there by train or tube and has gone to work today very wary. You're not alone in feeling as you do - although that's not much comfort, I know. Talk about it as much as you can and let your feelings out, don't bottle it all up. It will take time to get over it, but you will and everything will be back to normal again for you soon. Chin up, sweetheart! We're all thinking of you. Lots of love, Auntie Ceebee XX

steedie you shouldn't have to deal with it on your own.you need to go home and ring your gp and talk about it.we're all here for you babe.no one can ever say they know how it feels till they witness it.i've emailed you.love and hugs.take care .xxxxxx):

Hope you are ok Steph. Have you tried phoning your doctor, maybe they have someone there that you can talk to. Thinking of you. Maggy

Steedie, you are such a beautiful person. Remember what you would say to someone if it was happening to them! Time to reach out You are not alone, so many people love and care for you. Love and prayers JA

Steph - l found it:o)))) derrrr jude xx

Do as everyone has advised....although we are here for you Steph....it's not the same as a one to one face to face..... Make the call talking it out will help..... Jacquie xxxx

i have a docs appointment coming up, im calling to confirm today, i wont talk to the doctor on the phone but i will talk properly to him wen i see him. Im just waiting for bec to get here now xxx

Steph Never met you but glad you are okay. Glad you took the step of getting a docs appointment hope they can help you. Don't know Bec either but from what I've seen on the boards she will keep you going and will listen to you when you need to talk. Hope things get easier soon.

Steph, Cyber hugs to you, you poor old thing ... hope Bec has arrived. What a wonderful 'home visit' service GenesRe offers, huh? Someone else said earlier that the elderly would understand ... I had lunch on Tuesday with my long lost cousin who went through WW2. She made me feel quite a weak person - so much went on that they wouldn't normally talk about. I think that generation is much stronger than us. I haven't spoken to her since yesterday, but I think her response would be very stiff upper lipped ... wish I were that brave. Don't know that I'm much help right to you now, but can you begin to deal with your ordeal by thinking that you HAVE to go on, otherwise the b******s win ... this is what they want to do, to break our spirits. Keep talking to us Steph .... give Bec a hug from me too, she's a great lass. Love Jane

Bless Bec and may she get to you soon. 11 pm here in a dark and wet Australia. No complanit aabout the wet though as it has been so dry for so long. Mr Darcy the burmese hates the rain and has been a rat bag all night! Praying for you Big hugs to you and Bec Lots of Love JA

steph as i write this im sure bec is with you , bless you both, im so glad shes near to call, after seeing all this last night on here, it made me decide as well as working i would love to do councilling, so when i get back off hols im going to look into it, ive been thinking of you all day steph, and though i should be packing i had to come and see you all, wish i was here to chat next week but i know theres lots of friends on here you can chat to, make sure you talk it out of you head, dont keep it back, take care