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So sorry.... Brian.

Molly J that is such sad news Be brave thats what your dad would want you to do and take care god bless you and your family Howardxxx

B D, wish you could tell my elder daughter that... Brian.

So sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family. Marie

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts go to you and your family Julia

I am very sorry to hear about your sad loss. My thoughts are with you. Take care deb

Sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you. GP

I am so sorry to read of your sad loss of your father - he is free from pain and suffering now, and will always be in your heart. It is almost 16 years (23rd Jan) since my dad died (also from cancer) and the pain of loss does ease although you never ever forget. Take care, Molly Jane.

Sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. I will be thinking of you and your family. Alyson

The 13th January will be the 3rd anniversary of my dear dad's death and there is not a day that goes by without I miss him dreadfully. All that I can say to you is that it does get easier - initially I could not bear to even look at a photograph of him as I felt that my heart would break - those feelings went and now I think of the happy times and smile - there is no way that he would have wanted me to be so sad for long - he loved me too much and I him. xx

You are all so nice & kind, and I thank you for your kind messages. The funeral is tomorrow. My sisters and I are going to see him today, it will break my heart but I need to see him at peace. Love to all.

Molly so sad to hear your news. Take one day at a time. Elaine x Coming Home To my dearest friends and family, some things I'd like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I WELCOME YOU', 'It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your friends and family, They'll be here later on. I need you here so badly, you're a part of my plan. There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.' God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do, and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And I will be beside you every day and week and year and when you're sad I'm standing there to wipe away the tear. And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you.. in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain. I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er, I'm closer to you now than I ever was before. And to my very many friends trust God knows what is best, I'm still not far away from you I'm just beyond the crest. There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help somebody who's in sorrow, hurt, and pain, then you can say to God at night... 'My day was not in vain'. And now I am contented.... that my life was claimed worthwhile. Know as I passed along the way I made somebody smile. So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low, Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind. And when you feel the gentle breeze or the wind upon your face, that's me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace. And when it's time for you to go .... from that body to be free, Remember you're not going.. .. you're coming here to me. And I will always love you from that land way up above. Will be in touch again soon. P.S. 'God sends His Love' ~Author~ Ruth Ann Mahaffey

oh Molly, i am so so very sorry, My thoughts and prayers are with you all, especially for tomorrow.xxx

Molly Jane I'm so very sorry to hear your sad news and shall be thinking of you and your family. Sue

Molly Jane My condolences to you and your family at such a sad time. I hope you found comfort in seeing your Dad at rest and that you find the strength you need to get through today. Thinking of you and sending a (hug) Yvette

Molly Jane, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Lindy xx

Molly ,Im am so sorry for your loss ,and I know just what you are feeling right now ,ducky.I lost my dear ,dear Dad a year ago last Sept 11th.I still miss him so much ,but I can only say that it does get a little easier to bare,as time passes.And just like someone said earlier in this thread we have to try to remember the happy times we shared .That is what I try to do every day Molly.Also to think of how lucky I was to have had a Father who loved me so much .I send you My deepest Sympathy Molly ,and my support at this sad time in your life.Love Cazx

Oh I only just read your update. I lost my dad in October. I know how you must be feeling. God bless, think of the good times.

Molly Jane My own dad died 15 years ago from cancer, so I do know a bit about what you are going through. You don't get over these things, you just get on with them. Hold on to your precious memories. I think about my dad every day and miss him dreadfully at times - especially when I find out a bit more about his ancestors! Take care, we are all thinking of you. nell

So sorry for your loss Molly, parents are such special people and we miss they deeply when they go. God Bless Deb