General Chat

Hello Karen Sweetie, Thanks for your offer to inflict pain on him... I might whack him one anyway.... he's driving me mad! I'm not a Romantic but I do believe that some people are just drawn to each other... Hmmmm.... Love Becx

yeh i believe in them although i havent found mine. but i am only 19 so i have plenty of time to look

I didnt believe in soulmates but i do now - even if she does drive me round the bend sometimes :-)

*waves at Sheila*

*waves back at Bec* - keep looking hun, it took me a while and a lot of frogs lol

*waves at you both so as not to feel left out* lol Have already told Bec what I think lol

*waves to Paul* - cant have you feeling left out :-)

*waves at Uncle Paul* lol

yes, I do believe in soul mates, My hubby is mine!

Yeh I do. Not sure that it's always the person that you fall in love with and want to spend your life with - I don't see 'the love of your life' and your 'soulmate' as neccessarily the same thing. It's a lotta fun kissing frogs tho Sheila lol

David, Thats so true, Me and my hubby were friends for a long time before there was any romance:-)))

Well said David :O)) You can fall in love with lots of people along the way - but they aren't necessarily 'the one' - and I believe I speak from experience :O)) xx Bec - as I always advise - just take it slowly and let it grow - if it's meant to be it will blossom :O))) xxxx

If you hadn't got together Roxanne, do you think you might still have seen him as a soulmate?

And of course - sometimes they are not meant to be 'soulmates' - just the best mates you can have :O)) My previous Ex I have now known for about 11 years - we were together on and off for 8 years, but he had a lot of 'issues' that caused rifts between us at the time. He realises now that he let them come between us and I know he regrets what he lost because he tells me often. We have remained in contact as friends - and are now the best mates ever - always there for each other - able to talk about absolutely anything including matters of the heart - and quite frankly he is the one that has helped the most to get me through my most recent split :O))

Hi Anne:) I can relate to loads of that:)

I beleive in soul mates,but like others i do not beleive they are always your love interest, I think they can be your best friend of the opposite sex,someone who perhaps knows you better than your other half, and who's there when you need them.who will support you,when needed, but not nessesarly be romance there,but frienship love.

Probably David, it was just a natural progression, we are alike in so many ways, but different, if you know what I meanlol The differences seem to complement each other, theres a big age difference between us but its just not there, Oh Dear, I hope im making sense:-))

I think the last few comments are absolutely spot on. I've been quite close to one of my female friends for 18 years now, she's my best friend and although lately we've not spoken so much (she's got married, moved away, has a young family and is consequently), I know she's there for me if I need her, and vice versa. We get on brilliantly and always have (although I'm pretty sure I wouldn't go so far as to say soul mates, and she's probably laugh hysterically at that). Never a sniff of romance though.

When I first met my husband 44 years ago in my Dad's pub I was going out with someone else. As soon as I gave the other guy up my hubby asked me out. We have now been married 43 years and he is, and will always be, my one and only soul mate. I would never find anyone as good as him. Oh yes we have had our ups and downs but being the soul partners we are you get over those obstacles and work at the marriage. Now we are very comfortable we each other. Just wish he didn't snore so loud lol Regards Jackie

Jackie - awwwww :0)