General Chat

It's so sad. The thing is the majority of people seem to miss what's gone on, to the extent someone wants to leave.So you never know who the trouble makers/nasy commented people are. I would'nt know, so how are we supposed to ignore them? catherine

With all due respect you are just giving them control and encouraging them to carry on because they are getting results,so the number of people publicly declaring like this will continue,and will continue to feed the saddos. If people get on with doing what they like doing and ignore them ,they go away.

I go off to do some work for a couple of hours and all hell lets loose! LOL What's up sweetie? Julie xxx

What I find incredible is the fact that I'll sign in, and there's this fast-growing thread about what happened the previous evening/night, and I haven't a clue what happened! Apart from perhaps piecing together snippets from postings, but that's it. Something else that worries me is that, if I don't add a posting, will anybody think that I'm one of the culprits? It sounds paranoid I know, but the thought does go through my mind when this happens. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks that. x

Please don't get driven away. In all walks of life there are those who get their kicks from trying to hurt others. They only hurt if you let them. If they get no response they will give up. You know who you are and what you are worth. No-one can take that away from you. So hang on in there, develop a thick skin and if you get unpleasant messages just delete.

look at all these lovely messages and all my pms...its gonna take me months to reply lol! look, to be honest id rather be leaving out of my choice, and not getting booted off for telling someone to go and do one, sooner or later my mouth is gonna run (well fingers will) and ill tell someone what for! Your all so lovely you know that, but honest i think for me a better way to stay in touch with you all is to stay in touch via email. Dont get me wrong, when Aaron proposes ill be straight on here to announce it cos i promised i would, i dont want to take a break and i really dont want to come on here anymore, i just wanna stay in touch with all you lovely people without the bitching and nastiness. Too many people have really been brought down to rock bottom. Look at Lovely Lynda Pace, shes had people phoning her home! Our Strump wasnt even belived when she went to thailand to help all those kiddies, Lindy has left, Pauls gone....we can be friends without the nastiness in between. I promise i will reply to you all.. and this aint stopping me from coming to the meets i can get to! xxx

I'm with Glenys on this one - I have no idea what's gone on most of the time and sometimes wonder, have I said something I shouldn't have. I thought the point of this board was to come on when taking a break from Family history, chill out for a bit then go and do some more (or not, as the case may be! lol) Steedie, don't be a stranger. xxx Manda :-)

Steph.... sorry you feel as you do...As many before have said you will be missed. I wish you luck and hope after a while you will be able to come back. After what you went through last July, love, I am sure all this bickering must seem senseless. Take care, Jean x.

Steedie can I just say....stop and think about it love.....take a break. As you know I deleted myself before Christmas, then found it so hard to keep up with the lovely mail I got it was easier to just come back....even though I had to pluddy pay again. This week I have heard behind the scenes of so many regular names ready to quit. I have been sickened this week with the sad happenings on the board by well liked and respected members, it made me sad. I had to stand back and take stock and withdraw a bit...please do the same love.....take a break.....otherwise we loose too many nice people in the flak from other peopkles wars...which honestly we just can't sort if they are not willing to. XXXXXX (((())))

Sorry Steph, you've disapointed me, I thought you were better than this. The only way to get the better of the very, very few nasty people on here is to stay & for all the nice people to stop adding to their threads. Don't try talking to them, don't answer them, just ignore them. Whatever you do, take care of yourself Vivienne

hi steedie, dont know whats been going on, Ive been following your thread about work, but didnt see anything else. dont let whoever it is get to you, you will be missed on here. jean

hi steedie,well what can i say,ive just come online ,now all this,i am so sorry.and the lovely linda too.i dont reply to lots but ive always enjoyed your threads.i hope i fit into the nice majority.but these people do need to be named and shamed.this is so unfair.hugs joyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Good Luck with the job hunt. If/when I find something suitable I'll mail you the details. Becx

oh no, im really upset now , knowing that someones hurt you this much you decided to leave boards, ive heard lot recently of nasties on here, everyones been so kind to me, and thoughtful and ive really need those shoulders lately to cry on, i like you enjoy chatting on here, but im so sorry that your leaving, so who ever the bullies are, well done hope your real proud of yourselves, and im sure you really do sleep at night cos you dont have a concience i wish you steedie all the best and hope you return keep well

Steph sorry you are leaveing and best wishes in all you do. But if all the the nice guys leave the bullies will have had there way and won i have had this problem not on a board and i just never spoke to the them they need me before i need them donot let them win there will be know one decent left to talk to LOVE AND HUGS Val

Sorry to see you go, good luck with the job hunting. Take care Rosi

It's a shame this has happened - nobody wants the bullies on here. Jacquie XX

you take care yourself, sorry to see another well known name go. dont hesitate if you want to return, hopefully we ALL wont have been hounded off the site. tina x

Love you Princess Ken xx

who has upset my mate steph???? I am not at home, but am checking into the messages. not amused in the slightest. grrrrrrr. have sent you a pm hun Maz. XX