General Chat

i'm confused paul, why is it okay for your friends to bully people on this site, but wrong for people to bully your friend on another site. surely, you should condemn all bullying. bryan.

Thats why i've come to unload here. Didn't think people would mind.....

I don't mind paul you have every right to be worried about your friend, I took your feelings as a get off your chest thing and a way to warn other of this site. Don't worry bout it. catherine xx

Ok, i want to know what the hell is going on. I'm sick and tired of all these comments attacking me. Everyone can come on here and unload, and when I do it, some of you attack me for it. I NEVER, Bryan, NEVER said it was ok for my friends to bully. If a thread about bullying on another site should be kept to that site, why do people keep reffering to the 'GRLot' website. Sounds very hypocritical to me.

Well people are reffering to it. Without actually saying it. Can someone explain to me why the hell i'm being attacked here? This was a thread about the concerns for my friend, and yet it has turned into a personal attack on me.

didnt realise my reply could be deemed an attack wasnt meant to be Paul

Well can Paul explain to me why I cant vent my fustraitions about my concerns for my friend on here? Everyone on here expresses the fustraitions about everything on here, so why can't I do it on here? And I'm still waiting to hear when I actually agreed that my friends bullying was OK?

I think Paul (vodoo) just wants to vent his angry and fustration and that we can all understand that as it has been done many times on here. Paul please be carful with your wording as a member of my family was convicted just because he said ' I'm going to kill you' - ok ther may have been a bit more intimidation but the main focus of the case was his verbal threat to kill Joanne

Thanks Joanne! I know it's silly. I'm not going to kill them! lol. It's just a figure of speech I used because i'm so P-O'd!

Paul (Voodoo) for things like that to happen to your friend on a site is truly deplorable, there are to many rotters out there that prey on others. As a parent or even friend I to would be on the defensive if someone treated someone close to me that way.

MM, I wasn't talking about people talking about GRLot on this thread. It was on LL's thread. But if it's ok for people to talk about the problems and bullying on that site, why cant I talk about the bullying and problems on Face Party?

My family member said that in court that it was a figure of speech and I agree that it is and we all probably have used it at some point, but on here it is in print as well. You have a right to vent your angry as do others on here as well. I hope your friend is ok, as I hope that everyone who has been bullied via the internet is ok Joanne

Does this friend 'Sarah' use this site? maybe if she just wants to chat it would be a better option, surely you as her friend would be well advise to recomend it to her. Bullying goes on everywhere - hard when it happens to a friend, isn't it? Perhaps the grouse she has with the other site should be kept there. or are you saying that the purpetrator uses this site? mentioning all that personal stuff , she must have given that info out for it to be used in such a way - maybe she should be more careful about what she says to who. it isnt difficult to build a PP of a person with the ammount of personal info that flies about on sites

1 I never said you couldnt 2 as it was getting a little heated and your threats to take someones life was a little OTT was I attacking you ? thought I asked a question Paul

Jess, No Sarah aint a member of this sight, nor is the person sending her these messages (Don't think anyway). As I said in my last posting; In LL's thread earlier, people were talking about the bullying and problems on GRLot, so why can't I talk about the problems and bullying on FaceParty on this site?

Paul, I find it very hard to believe that you have NEVER said in fustration that'll you'll kill someone (As a figure of speech)

NEVER on a public forum LOL Paul

I think a major fundamental difference is that the 'splinter group' that behaved so deplorably and bullied GR members WERE suspended members of GR, and they were bullying them simply because of that - did you actually see the cruelty they dished out? face party is hardly a reputable site , is it? or a comparable one even and i repeat - she must have given out the info to enable for them to use it

Paul - And thats funny why?

Jess, There is no different what-so-ever. If people will talk about the problems on GR Lot (Which isn't part of this site) I'll talk about the problems on Face Party. I didn't see this cruelty they dished out. But on the other side, not everyone involved are completly innocent are they? And by the way, I was not involved in that site in any way. I dont see anyone having a problem with other peoples threads fronting their fustraitions.