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GillfromStaffs

GillfromStaffs Report 9 Jan 2007 11:26

My once proud beautifull mother in law has been laying in a hospital bed for two weeks now,hooked up to machines, falling in and out of sleep.The nurses attending to her are wonderfull and every day are surprised she is still here.g*d knows we have had our disagrements over the years but i love her second only to my own mother who passed away 6 years ago.When iam with her i am willing her to let go,i feel so guilty about this but i can see what it's doing to my husband, brother in law and her husband.We shall see what today brings,just finished work it's bath and back to the hospital. Sorrry to lay this on everyone,but needed to get it off my chest. Gill Mother in Law passed away a few minites ago

Researching:
Proctor Audley & S-O-T, Forrester,Hanley, Shenton, Hanley, Moreton, Madeley. All in Staffordshire

Lin in Sussex

Lin in Sussex Report 9 Jan 2007 11:33

I went through this at the beginning of last year with my fil. At one point we were on our own and he opened his eyes and looked straight at me I whispered to him that it was ok for him to go and he smiled. I loved him so much, sorry I truely understand. My love and prayers to you and your family Lin x

PinkDiana

PinkDiana Report 9 Jan 2007 11:33

I know exactly what you are feeling sweetheart!! Hugs xx

GillfromStaffs

GillfromStaffs Report 9 Jan 2007 11:34

Thankyou all for your kind words Gill

Researching:
Proctor Audley & S-O-T, Forrester,Hanley, Shenton, Hanley, Moreton, Madeley. All in Staffordshire

.•:*¨¨*:• ★Jax in Wales★.•:*¨¨*:•.

.•:*¨¨*:• ★Jax in Wales★.•:*¨¨*:•. Report 9 Jan 2007 11:36

Hi Gill I think this a normal feeling that most people in you circumstances go through. My thoughts are with you and your family Jackiexx

Toothfairy

Toothfairy Report 9 Jan 2007 11:37

Gill, when her time is up they will send for her. Cherish every minute she is here and know she wont be going far... Love to you and family... LOU XXXXXXXXXX

Sarabby

Sarabby Report 9 Jan 2007 11:39

All these emotions are normal Gill. Thoughts are with you and yours. Take care kath

Catherine from Manchester

Catherine from Manchester Report 9 Jan 2007 11:40

My thoughts with you Gill. It's so difficult isn't it. catherine xx

dutch

dutch Report 9 Jan 2007 11:41

gill (((((((((((((((((((hugs )))))))))))))))))))))to you and the family i no what its like at the moment going thru something simlar but hope my daughter will pull thru god bless joyce from holland

AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 9 Jan 2007 12:23

Gill just seen that your Mother in Law finally let herself go. My thoughts are with you and your and her family. ((((hugs)))) Ann Glos

Researching:
Photo spring Researching Somerset, Dorset, Hampshire, Derbyshire, Staffs, Devon, Glamorganshire. Ingram, Masters, Tamblyn, Knight, Warner, Bate, Allen, Riggs, Dominey, Duffin

Cumbrian Caz~**~

Cumbrian Caz~**~ Report 9 Jan 2007 12:31

Gill I am so very, very sorry and also glad your mum in law had such a lovely DIL in you, Love and prayers, Caz xxxx

Rosi Glow

Rosi Glow Report 9 Jan 2007 12:31

Im so sorry for your loss, she is finally at peace now. Be brave, remember she will always be with you in your memories and in your heart. Bless you and your family at this sad time.

GillfromStaffs

GillfromStaffs Report 9 Jan 2007 16:10

I would just like to thank everyone for there comforting words and kind thoughts at thiis time.In the end she did go peacefully and i think we are all ok. Thankyou again Gill

Researching:
Proctor Audley & S-O-T, Forrester,Hanley, Shenton, Hanley, Moreton, Madeley. All in Staffordshire

♥Julia♦from♦Liverpool ♥

♥Julia♦from♦Liverpool ♥ Report 9 Jan 2007 16:31

Gill I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your hubbys family at this sad time. Julia

*~~*Posh*~~*

*~~*Posh*~~* Report 9 Jan 2007 16:39

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you all xxx Cxx

Researching:
Hydes of Northern Ireland

Unknown

Unknown Report 9 Jan 2007 16:46

Gill - thinking of you all. Now she can rest in peace. jude sarf wales.

VIVinHERTS

VIVinHERTS Report 9 Jan 2007 16:48

Gill, Thinking of you all. Viv

Researching:
Researching Tucker in London/Australia. Cliff in U.S.A. Fuller, Eaton & Sa(u)nders(on) in Bedfordshire. Turner, Morley, Blythe & Webb in Cambridgeshire/Suffolk. Want in Hertfordshire.

Scooby's

Scooby's Report 9 Jan 2007 16:50

Many of us will be able to relate to the way you feel and I know there will be just as many shedding a tear for you. Much love at this difficult time Janetx

madammorg

madammorg Report 10 Jan 2007 19:54

thoughts and prayers for you and your family tina x

Researching:
abba - scarborough, appleby - scarborough, atkinson- scarborough, bradley - bulmer, bourne - maldon, braithwaite - lepton, burnett - thornton dale, dawson - whitby, dixon - fylingdales, harrison - scarborough, hogg - scarborough, hugill - danby/slingsby, hunter - hackness, husband - filey, otterburn - appleton le moors, stamp - whitby, thompson - scarborough,

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2**

~~~Secret Red ^^ Squirrel~~~ **007 1/2** Report 10 Jan 2007 19:58

(((((((((hugs for you all))))))))))

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