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OMD (the object of my desire) a bloke at work - keep getting what I think are positive vibes/comments/actions - that make me think he is a bit interested, or at least getting there. Then I see or hear something that makes me doubt it and knocks me back again. Tis not fair ................ why can't he just like me and get on with it ?? LOL :O((

*tuts* You think there's actually a man out there who knows his own mind? Mandy ;)) x

McAnne - cos he's a bloke that's why. It will take him some time to get there. We all know girls are faster mental and physical developers then boys and are more socially advanced. In addition as a bloke he won't ask for directions so you have to allow him time to go in the wrong direction. He will arrive at desired location eventually, however, once he gets there you'll probably find he's not worth it. lol T.O.R. ;o))

Oh lol David......mind you - you should be half way there, because you know how men think....

.......... well not quite love - more like lust/attraction/infatuation. Blinking hard when it's not recipricated ain't it ??? :O(( Update on page 3

Drastic but................have you tried saying 'Do you want to take me out for a drink or not?' At least you'll know where you stand. He might not know you're desperate........sorry that should have said available.

Mandy lol Well I am doing my best to help him - maybe I am being too subtle lolol

Then are you saying there is no hope for us then David.....if you can't figure out the mindset of your own sex, what chance have we?.... Anne.....If I were you I would play cool for a bit, to see how he reacts......might do the trick.....

LOL David - you have my sympathies I am sure lol TOR - an excellent analysis - and you're prolly right about the end result lolol

Oh David - that's just made me even more nervous now lol - I couldn't possibly ............... *thinks - maybe I should have signed the valentine card after all lol*

TOR pmsl I just wish I was that forward/confident lol But you know what they say ........... 'rejection/refusal often offends' lol

Maybe you should ask him for a drink, if he accepts wahay but if he says no at least you know where you stand and can move on and find another victim erm I mean OMD lol Jackiex

Sally I've been playing it hot cold and indifferent since October lolol *confused*

David ............... go on lol brb - later, just off to fat club lol

Sorry then Anne......that is all I can think of.......be mysterious and keep them guessing.......but maybe he is doing that.....

You know if all else fails ........ you could club him on the head and drag him by his hair to your luv nest ..... he'll get the message then!! Much happiness Debi

Hi McAnne, With the 20/20 vision of hindsight ,I would say tell him straight how you feel! If you can't do that at least think of a way you could ask him out in a more subtle way...I am sure you can think of something, even if it is just going for a coffee after work. Good luck, and don't forget it is usually the things you don't do that you regret most! Rosexx

It happened to me many years ago:-)) I was the wrong sexlol I had no Idea either but we are now very good friends,we have a good laugh these days about it:-))

Oh dear Anne what are we to do? The only thing I came up with was for someone to send him a letter suggesting he asks out the wonderful Lady whose heart he has stolen before another sweeps her off her feet (all without naming names). But........ I am doubting if it would work!!! Fellas are just not quick enougth to catch on. lol I hope he gets his act together soon!!

Hi - am back Thanks everyone :O)) Think I like the clubbing him over the head idea lolol *sighs wistfully*