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My mum passed away 8 years ago now, and it is still very hard for me to come to terms with her not being here with us all. My dad after spending 6 weeks by her side at the hospice (he never left to go home) went to pieces and could not deal with anything afterwards.
saw my big soft 6ft 3inch hero reduced to a quivering wreck in the following weeks. They did everything together and were the life and soul of the party.........dad is 80 now and everything crossed I hope he will be with us for a few more years to come.

I often think to myself that I hope my two kids dont miss me as much as I miss her...........strange thought I know.........but I just could not bear to think of them suffering the heartache that I had.

God Bless all us mums I say.

Annx

Smiles...kisses and hugs to all xxx

love and hugs to all of u, we were not a close family, i also spent a week at the hospice with dad i had to hold my mum up so much it created a strong bond since then we always hug and kiss and tell each other we love u, mum said its a generation thing, ive noticed young teenagers freely say that they love and think its really caught on, for those that have lost there mum she knows you love her xxxx

We all have our special stories to tell. And rightly so. Lets not get too maudlin here.............let us just hold on to love we have in our heart's. We all deal with things in different ways, If it works for you, then that is the way go! xxxxxx

Puss,

Just my opinion, I really felt there was no need to hug & kiss every minute of the day..........you just know you love your parents and they love you, just by the everyday things you do for each other.

I think your mum is quite right ,it was not the done thing years ago, infact looking back I dont think i ever saw my grandparents hold hands or kiss each other in front of an "audience"



Annx

My mum passed away 16 yrs ago
this Friday comming, i loved her
but for reasons that i cant put on here
i didnt see my mum for 6 months before she died.
but i think she knew that i loved her .and i still do .
Hazelx

i meant hug and kiss when saying goodbye, were not joined at the hip xx

Puss, in all respect, i really dont think anyone is having a lol on here.

She gave me life
She gave me love
Now she looks apone me from above


Wish I could tell her, even after 16 years of her being gone she still has to listen to me every night :))

Kim

Hey Kim, dont be too hard on yourself...............i am sure she hear's every word you say! xxx

edited wasn/t thinking susan its just the way i had wrote it it looked like thats all we did all day.......with respect susan its not meant to be a depressing thread either merely somewhere people can express there feelings.

Susan

I'm not being hard on myself at all, just changed a word

On her card it was said different, it wasn't 'she' it was 'You' :))

Kim

ice baby.......... i didnt have a very good start in life too but i know how lucky i am that things changed for the better , ive been hurt and there are things that wont heal , cant change the past but ive used mine to try and be a better mum xx hope your ok xx if you ever want to chat will listen in confidence xx

your welcome ice baby xx

No hard feelings Puss........it is just that your "lol" comment, which you have edited, touched on a nerve! I am soo grateful that i had my precious Mum in my life for 50 yrs.........unfortunately, some people were not so lucky. xxx

none to susan xx, im scared that now i love my mum i want to protect her and feel i couldnt ever be without her now, but she is only 62 so hopefully please god i have many more with hewr xx must go now please feel free to continue , so sorry to those who have lost xxx

Hey no worries Puss. xxx Dont put off untill tomorrow, things you could have said today. xxxx

Kiity, all credit to you! I cant even begin to imagine! x

Kitty

That must have been so hard for you and I too can't think how that has been for you, but I can imagine your grand daughter knows she's loved to bits

Kim xx