General Chat

Take care caz, its just a teenage thing,
I know it seems enormous at the moment, but believe me in the next few months it will look very trivial.
we have all been there, and listen to what the other ladies have said, forget her "old man" you would be just adding fuel to the fire! Your doing a great job on your own (even if it dont seem like it at the moment)
YOU are the one "constant" in her life. and get her to write a letter about her feelings, these women are all right about that aswell!
all my love
xxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Caz,

Just got back from holidays last night so hadn't seen this.

Can't add any more than anyone else. Just sending you big hugs and to your daughter.

Sincerely hope all goes well in the next weeks/months.

Linda x

just read this through Caz just hang in there it is so hard My daughter reacts like this due to ex as she gets older she will recognise the cause ans the hormones will settle and she will be more rational .life is so hard for them .mine now recognise that i have been there for them and that their dad couldnt give two monkeys . god bless maz

I thought the crime was the adult that bought alcohol for the underage person not the underage person asking the adult to buy it for them. But then I don't know a great deal about these things. Or was there something else that happened.

It's promising that they will take her state of mind into consideration. I forget how old she is, hun? I think it's fairly obvious that she's learnt her lesson from all this and hopefully that too will help her case.

How are you holding up? Don't forget, I'm here for coffee and sympathy if you need it.

*huggage*
Liz x

Hello Caz,

Was thinking of you today.

You'll do the right thing when you have had time to think.

Love Sue xx

Caz, sorry just seen this.......... sprinkles more fairy dust....... stay away from ex and bully wife... they'd only be spiteful to you.
take care, kaz xxxx

Caz, can only repeat what has been said. don't bother about her Father. ignore his existence and concentrate on your daughter. Even if she doesn't now, when she looks back she will appreciate the fact that you were there for her.

Still thinking of you.

Ann
glos xx

Caz. You would be better to keep her away from you ex.

She needs to know that your main concern is her, and not what he thinks.

She knows how much you love her, and having had the chance to have a long chat about things, could be the turning point to building new bridges between you both.

She has probably learnt her lesson.

I wish you both all the best.

********more fairy dust coming your way******


Vods xxx

Oh dear, so I now notice.

Well in that case I will up date mine, keep away from ex and his bully wife - why put yourself through unnecessary stress. You are doing a good job by yourself.

*scatters more fairy dust for good luck*

Tina xxxx

Bless you Tina,

I have updated a few posts back, thankyou for caring,


Caz xxxx

Wishing you lots of fairy dust and good luck for tomorrow.

((((big hugs)))))

Tina xxxx

Thanks Mary, my love,


Yes, I have to accept he actually doesnt care anymore,

Hope you are well,


Caz xxx

Caz - ex would not give a toss - rise above it with your head held high - you have the kids - he is the looser
Take care
love Mary xx

Thanks Phyl and Hazel, he has become very arrogant and his wife is a bully who i know would just sneer at me and say something that would make me fly, they havent had the stress of coping with the teenage problems and the pent up anger would come out, years of anger would probably come out,


Thanks Ladies, I value your wisdom!!


Caz xxx

Caz ,
i agree with bellblair would he care

you will only get more upset ....
is he worth it ..
Hazelx

Caz will he care if you do go to his door,
but with your daughter try and get her to write how she feels in a letter even if she throws it away after wards it might help her come to terms with thing that have happened to her.

Sending you and your daughter a big HUG.
Phyl

Hello all you lovely people, bless you for caring,

The case was adjurned as the solicitor recommended she plead guilty to one charge and not the other.He also said the news she received that evening will be taken into consideration.

The person who supplied the alcohol has got away scot free and as I was not giving her money, for fear of her getting alcohol, other friends supplied the money.

One positive point was that we had a long while to sit and talk and I gave her a big hug and told her I love her. I could tell she finds dealing with emotions difficult as she hugged me back but changed the subject.

I want to go to her Dads door and tell him just what I think, do you think it would be a bad idea?


Love to you all for caring,


Caz xxxx

I don't think it is Crystal T
But it should be
Ann
Glos

Hi Caz,

sprinkles of fairy dust and a big hug x

I assume that it is the adult who supplied the alcohol who is in court and likely to be fined?

Hi Caz
Just seen this thread, been there and come through the other side and you will too, even if it does not feel like it at this time.
Sending you big HUGS and lots of fairy dust.
Phyl.