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BrendafromWales

BrendafromWales Report 26 Mar 2008 10:17

At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."

Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world".

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces

Sheila

Sheila Report 26 Mar 2008 10:21

Never a truer word spoken !

cariad

cariad Report 26 Mar 2008 10:23

why am I crying?

MrDaff

MrDaff Report 26 Mar 2008 10:46

Leaky eye syndrome, Joy... I have it rather badly at the moment, too.

Thank you Brenda, xxx

xxxxxx Daff

cariad

cariad Report 26 Mar 2008 10:52

I am an empath - I feel too much sometimes - I cry at the news on tv - sloppy films - sad stories on here etc.

But I wouldn't swap it to be hard hearted Daff would you?

Joy

DAVE B

DAVE B Report 26 Mar 2008 10:58

what a wonderful story, Im crying soft sod I am
Dave Bx

Staffs Col

Staffs Col Report 26 Mar 2008 11:14

Hairy a**ed 47 year old ex Royal Navy sailor and I'm blubbing like a baby

GI YID

GI YID Report 26 Mar 2008 11:18

...............gulp.......................................


Glynisxxx

Wild Cat

Wild Cat Report 26 Mar 2008 11:18

That's so touching.

Krystyna♥

Krystyna♥ Report 26 Mar 2008 11:19

Speechless!!! That is so sad yet so wonderful at the same time.

Krystyna

Susan719813

Susan719813 Report 26 Mar 2008 11:21

Anyone got a tissue?


Susan
x

Desperate Housewife ♥

Desperate Housewife ♥ Report 26 Mar 2008 11:27

Brenda you made my mascara run!

Karen x

Clueless

Clueless Report 26 Mar 2008 11:27

Thanks for this Brenda....makes you think doesn't it?....pass the tissues please....xx...Fi

JustJean

JustJean Report 26 Mar 2008 11:45


Thank you ,Brenda it is a truly beautiful story,

Jean x

Sue Two

Sue Two Report 26 Mar 2008 11:50

Great story brenda .......please excuse me while I wipe down me laptop!! and dry me specs ......

♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥

♥ Kitty the Rubbish Cook ♥ Report 26 Mar 2008 11:52

Thank you Brenda.......................a very moving story.

xx

LindaMcD

LindaMcD Report 26 Mar 2008 11:56

Thanks Brenda I posted this some weeks ago but no responses so glad you have had some it is such a moving story.

Linda x

Colin

Colin Report 26 Mar 2008 12:08

Brenda
I hope you dont mind, but when i litterally dried my tears i printed it down. Its very potent
to me. Ive printed it as i want my daughter to read
this. since her little boy also has problems
Sorry i cant go on

colin F
wrexham

Rose

Rose Report 26 Mar 2008 12:10

lovely story
tears in my eyes
..............rosexx....

*~~*Posh*~~*

*~~*Posh*~~* Report 26 Mar 2008 12:29

Lovely story Brenda..Thankyou xx