General Chat

(hope this dusn't upset or turn if it does i will delete when i return)

i would have truely beleived some1 close that they were hurt & not cryin wolf ;0((

when i was eleven i sent a nasty birthday card to a 'friend' down the road, because we had put on a play and she wouldn't let me be the lead. then when she complained made a friend lie for me. it's not that major but it always upsets me to think about it.

also i wish i had kept in contact with family members when it wasn't too late.

It's the change ONE thing I would have a problem with. I don't think there is one big regret I would like to go back and rectify - but there are lots of little ones, hindsight is a wonderful thing, a lot of the things I would change were in my youth, so maybe should forgive my self and put it down to immaturity.

Joy

I wouldn't change anything I have done.....just the things I didn't do.......

but one thing I would do....and will do always in future if at all possible......is tell people I love them if I do.

xx

i would have liked to have got to know my dear father better, he died when i was 27 too early for me to realise how precious he was.
i was all wrapped up with a young family and struggling with life in general. i miss him so much!

On the day of my mother-in-laws funeral, I wish I had held tightly to father-in-laws hand in the funeral car......................I really wanted to, but was too shy.

That has always played on my mind................a little thing, but it matters to me.

xx

I wouldn't listen to my stepdad...I'd go sit and hold my mothers hand when she died...I was heavily pregnant and he thought it wouldn't be good for me...unfortunatly the guilt I have felt ever since has been been a whole lot worse for me than the simple act of showing my love could ever have been...xx

I understand that feeling...............I was 2 weeks away from having our eldest when mother-in-law died and was too scared to go up to sit with her and father-in-law.

I'm sure you Mum knew you were close to her and understood (((((hugs))))))

xx

i wish i had made my mum go to the doctors on the day of my daughters 2nd birthday (she had a hacking cough) but she wouldnt listen to me as she wanted to spend time with her grandchildren

she died 5 days later

kirsten x

yes me too, my mother wouldnt let me say "goodbye" to my father when he died because i was pregnant , it has always been in my mind

life's to short to have regrets

we all learn by our experiences in life

i have learnt not to believe all i hear

not regrets joy, just som ething i would have changed if i could!

a " normal " relationship with my mother, ( which is every childs right ) instead of one full of hatred from her to me and my sisters, 40 odd years on, and still no relationship with her for me, my beautiful daughters and little Kayleigh,
sometimes i just long for a mum who likes me, and thinks im worth something

xxLynnxx

Awww Lynn.................at least you broke the cycle with your own children.

xx

i wish i took my mother-in-law on our holls aug94 by oct she passed away due to stomach cancer,when she was in hosp i did tell her she was to come home with me and i would look after her(i was pregnant too) i truly meant it, didn't realise how fast the cancer would take her,she never told any of us she had cancer until she was admitted to hosp early oct,i have to live with that guilt of not taking her on holiday; ( i miss her lots.

I did Kitty :o)))))

i love them more than life itself and never let a day go by without telling them how precious and wonderful they are, and they return it 10 fold

xxLynnxx

the only thing I would change is to have been wrong about my mum developing Alziemers........oh how I wish Id been wrong

Just wish i had gone out that night with my Stacey, she was 19, love of my life, killed by a drunk driver.

Sue............................my Mum has Alzheimers too, but if she didn't she would know that dad died 3 years ago and would be absolutely heartbroken.

As it is, she lives in her own reality and is fairly happy most of the time.

It is the family who suffer so much, watching her slowly disappear little by little and becoming a shell of the wonderful person she once was.

((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) to you.

xx

Kitty, I work with these people, i know what you mean. I always feel for the loved ones, what they go through. I could go on .... I never swich off from "work" Always worry about "my" patients, 24 seven.
Love
xxxxx