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oh no what have i done...im so stupid! UPDATE!!!UP

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Bec

Bec Report 8 Feb 2005 15:50

Honey - will ring you when I'm on the train... unless you're busy in which case text me! love becx

Lisa

Lisa Report 8 Feb 2005 15:48

steedie i would leave it and get him to ring you.let him cool off abitxxxxx(:

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 15:48

thanks everyone, he still hasnt text me back, am supposed to be going over his tonight so will see how things go

Rosalind in Madeira

Rosalind in Madeira Report 8 Feb 2005 15:39

Steedie, you can always use mailwasher to bounce the emails back to her, you can still read them first, this will make her think that your email address has changed. Good luck, hope it gets sorted out. I know your upset but you shouldn't have to put up with the slagging off and neither should Aaron's parents. Ros

Speedy

Speedy Report 8 Feb 2005 15:39

Steedie, you have every right to stand up for yourself, if he is still a little upset tonight, try and point out that what she is saying is upsetting you, and that you think enough of him to want to stand up for him as well, that should get his ego going, and tell him your sorry for reading his personal emails, but you think it is unfair that he is directing his anger or upset at you when she is the one causing him and his parents this kind of greaf. What ever happens I hope he realises how lucky he is to have a woman who stands up for him rather than one who is saying really bad things. Bev

☼♥Missy

☼♥Missy Report 8 Feb 2005 15:33

You are definitely not stupid - it's called being impetuous and young!! We have all done things then a couple of seconds later regretted it. I hope you and Aaron get things sorted out. Love Lx

Lisa

Lisa Report 8 Feb 2005 15:31

email it to me steedie.i know a phycho when i see one!!!!LOLxxxxxxxxxxxx(:

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 15:29

yes diana you are right, he should change it, but your also right by sayin i should have kept my dignity, i would post what she said in the email, the girl is all over the place, but the language is pretty bad xx

badger

badger Report 8 Feb 2005 15:27

I can't help but agree with Diana,to change an e/mail address takes a few minutes and saves all the hassle that you have now had to put up with.your lad should have forseen this ,and protected you ,his fault Steedie ,not yours so cheer up ,if he can't handle it ,there are loads more in the world who will treat you better.Fred.ptfg&a&g&s.P/s,if she is leaving messages in all his usual haunts ,then she is stalking ,he should have her charged.

Lisa

Lisa Report 8 Feb 2005 15:17

hugs comin your way babesxxxxxxxx(:

PinkDiana

PinkDiana Report 8 Feb 2005 15:17

Sweetie, this is both your issues.... he should have changed his email address or blocked hers and you should've kept your DIGNITY!! Only my opinion babe.... and if he doesn't understand that he too has to take some responsibility then he aint worth having!!

Lisa

Lisa Report 8 Feb 2005 15:17

steedie he wants to get the police involved with that one.thats harassementxxxxxxx(:

Bec

Bec Report 8 Feb 2005 15:15

Sending you mu hugs and love sweetie! If it makes you feel any better I'm so nervous I think I'm going to be sick.... :-( becx

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 15:13

Ok, this girl is awful to him, phones his house tells his parents next time they see him it will be when hes in hospital, calls him all kind of names, hassles him like mad, really gets him down and now she is involving me. he hates her cant stand her and it was just the last straw. i was nice to her, said i didnt want to row with her, just that she needs to leave him and his family alone, i told her that i understood thats shes angry if she still cares about him but shes not helping herslef by being the way she is. if dave was doing that to me id think its fair if he emailed or spoke to him. But how does he think i feel when im being spoken about the way she speaks of me and how am i supposed to feel when she emails him and stuff, he cant just expect me to sit back and be like yeh let her slag the hell out of me, all he does is send emails back saying leave him alone, well thats hardly working is it, so i thought id try the nice approach. now i feel awful, im scared hes gonna shout at me, and i need a cuddle

Bec

Bec Report 8 Feb 2005 15:05

Update me please! becx

Lisa

Lisa Report 8 Feb 2005 15:03

steedie i would have done the same.it's not your fault.why is this girl emailing him anyway .tell her to get lostxxxxx(:

PinkDiana

PinkDiana Report 8 Feb 2005 15:03

You wouldn't be happy if he sent Dave an email babe.... let him calm down and see what happens then!

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 15:02

he is NOT happy, oh god im crying

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 14:27

lisa, i copied him on in the email, but im seeing him tonight so i have to tell him then

Stephanie

Stephanie Report 8 Feb 2005 14:26

it took me ages to write it so i wasnt rushing anything...but im so scared im close to tears