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Thats fine babe, Shout when you need me As long as it's not mummy eh Jan 3rd mum

Thanks fred! And Yvette <<<<<<HUGS>>>>>> thats for you! As for you Jan - I'd LOVE you to be a surrogate mother but you'll have to share me with Daisy? love becx

I was lucky and had a mum in a million ,but if she had ever said anything like that to me i would have been devestated too. Reading between the lines i think your mum is feeling really down and is hitting out ,and you are first in line,She will more than likely calm down by tomorrow and say she is sorry..cheer up ,im sure she did'nt really mean it. As you can see ,you have people who think a lot of you and you are not alone at all.Fred.ptfg.&a&g&s.

Bec Mega ((((hugs)))) Yvette

Tell her you are who you are because of your parents see how she likes that, tell you what, i'll be your second mum(only hear to cheer you up) hows that. Jan

Thanks Glenys and Jan I know we're all human and all make mistakes but I wish she'd stop punishing for my dad's actions... Maybe one day? becx

Don't let it get you down babe, If you do she's winning. Just remember you are better than that, we all know it so do you. Jan

In fact, thinking about it Bec, I say some horrible things to our two kids sometimes. But when I've thought it over, I then apologise if it warrants it - then they can see I'm human, rather than a bad-tempered mother as they sometimes see me! I sincerely hope this is the case with your Mum. Glenys x

Thanks Jan! Just feel like every time something like this happens our relationship gets chipped away more and more. becx :-(

Thanks Emma and Howard Also thanks Yvette... your words made me cry again! but for a good reason this time! I assume she's drunk a bottle of wine, is sitting on her own and feeling resentful... doesn't make it right though. Sometimes I feel like I'm the adult and she's the child! becx

Bec You will never be alone when you have us. Iv'e got a teenager and i tell her i will love her for ever but some days i don't like her( when she's having a 'kevin ' moment. Chin up babe, keep smiling. Jan

bec us parent's say some awful things sometimes and when we stop and think about it we are sorry but don't always say it thats parents for you one day when you are older you will know what i mean i am not making excuses for your mam wait until tomorrow and then talk to her good luck howard

Bec Hi honey Please don't take any notice, Mums have bad days and say stupid things, i am sure your Mum was having a bad day as well. Unfortunatley being older doesn't make us any wiser at times. Having read your messages in the past and meeting you on saturday i can say i would be proud of you if you were my daughter. Send your Mum a message of love and i am sure she will be sorry for her comment. Yvette

You will never be alone. x

Thanks Glenys I texted her and said 'Was that a joke? If it was then it wasn't funny. I am really upset now. Bec' I give up now. In the past I've bitten my tongue and forgiven her for all sorts but it's beyond me now. I may have been a naughty teenager but she's been far from a perfect mum. Thank you everyone for your replies, nice to know that even though I'm alone I'm not completely alone. becx

Well, I was perfect ............. I just disguised it very well. Bec, take heart. You're lovely - and very popular on these boards. By the way, am on the lookout on your behalf, talent-wise. Hope Mum explains herself more clearly. Good luck, Chuck. Glenys x

Just altered the text message as I found exactly what she put. Doesn't seem like a joke to me :-( I wasn't awful, yes I was silly but I was a teenager :-( becx

I am sure she didnt mean it....you could not have been as bad as me, i was THE child from hell....apparently..i deny everything!!! Dont cry or i will start again!

Bec honey, none of us were perfect as teenagers ( the word teenager translates as alien species) and im sure you were no worse than anybody else. I hope youre mum was joking and you can sort things out.

Thanks Paul Am trying to pull myself together before my brother gets home or he'll get upset too :-(