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Hi Chloe, Everyones giving u great advice so I'll just send luv and hugs (lots of them) Stel

I am slowly coming off my medication. I want to see how I cope without it. I've been on seroxat for about 2 years now. As for PMT - come to think about it, I'm due in about a week, so it probably is something to do with hormones too. They know how I feel.That I feel down. But they just put it down to my being 'silly'. They've told me this. All my sisters seem to think this. I'm just being silly. No matter how loud I shout that I'm not (not literally), I don't get heard.

Mags - thanks. I can't even begin to count the number of times I've thought that I'll sort it all out tomorrow and look on things more positively. Some days I can do it. But most I can't. As for the job - in the process - but don't have sufficient experience, so am hoping and praying. Friends - I have one friend who won't leave her house (anxiety disorder), another who is still at uni, one who works all the time.... I live in the middle of nowhere. Not many ways of meeting new people my age. I'm 21. Stuck at home due to lack of money. These aren't excuses, just explaining my situation. Thanks though, MAgs. Thanks a lot. x

Oh Chloe You sound so down. Do you feel like this all of the time? If so maybe you should speak to your doctor. I am someone who gets very affected by PMT and all the things you are saying are the things I feel during my PMT times. You are not ugly, worthless and I doubt you're even fat. Your sister is probably very tired and thats normal but both your sister and mum would probably be devastated if they knew this is how you feel. Please try again to talk to them. And don't forget we are always here for you. sarah xxx

Chloe - you must be feeling good about being able to help people. I've just seen your work helping Pat on the Records Board - and she certainly thinks you're fantastic!!! Keep up the good work, and keep your mind on positive things as much as you can. Ellen.xx.

hi chloe, i bet you are a lovely girl who is kind and always thinking of other people be patient with your mum and ask her for a big hugg now and again life is full of problems but i know you can get through them, you are on a downer tonight but tomorrow is the start of the new you go for it chloe you will be a great success in your life i know you will

Why are you stuck at home Chloe? - get out there! No friends? - We are your friends. You want more? - get out there! You have a crap job? - Look for another one that makes you feel good. Fat and ugly? - I doubt it - but so am I - It matters not one jot to my friends. Pick yourself up and dust yourself down and start a new day tomorrow. Remember - When you are at the bottom the only way is up! Sending you a hug Love Magsxxx

Thanks guys. Wish your hugs were real.

Thanks for the info, Ann. Part of me feels that it's my sister being all dramatic and loving to be pregnant, and as soon as the baby is born, she'll be even more portective than she was over the first. She has her reasons but I just don't really see the logic.

Plus she may be very sick and not telling you. I was, and its awful. Sit down and have a hug. Deanna ((((((((hugs))))))))

Ooooooo Chloe you do sound down - but then it is I find that this is the most miserable time of the year!!!!!! But just think - you must be beautiful cos only beautiful women are allowed on this site !!!!!

Chole (((((hug ))))))) we are here too for you. Love Kirsty x

You are not UGLY Chloe. I've never met you and I know you arent! You are just going through an emotional time. We all have s**T days sometimes loads at a time. We get over them. You have just had great advice....stay here and talk to us. Deanna

Thanks. Family means so much to me. My family do love me, they just don't want to spend time with me. I was a right bitch when I was growing up. Really nasty cow. It was a cry for help though. And now I don't have anyone to really listen and not say 'I told you so'. I wish my sisters didn't have lives of their own. It's such a selfish thing to want, but I wish it so much. PS - if I take timeout for myself, I'll go even more mad. I just want to shut my eyes and never have to open them again.

Take some time out for yourself just you

Sorry you are feeling so low, but in your sister's defence, I found the first twelve weeks of pregnancy the most tiring- the baby is developing fast and takes all your energy.

Big hugs Chloe. Wish I could make you feel better. Think of it as their problem not yours if they do not want to communicate. You have a virtual family on here to communicate with anytime. Ellen xx.

Chole, you are in no way useless. Please believe this. Everyone feels down sometimes, Your family were problay just preoccupited with what they were doing. My mum is the same if i ring when her programmes are on. :) sometimes it can hurt, other times i just smile at it. Take Care Chole, i hope you feel better soon Lots love Kirsty xxxx

Chloe Hi, sounds like your having 1 hell of a s**t day. Try and take time out and do something you enjoy like chatting to all the great pepes on this site . take care

Not feeling too good at all. Am typing this out cos otherwise I'll do something I don't want to do. I feel ignored at home. Maybe I'm not and I'm just seeing things all wrong. Yesterday, I said to my mum 'you don't know me at all' (she'd made some assumptions that weren't true), to which she replied, 'you don't know me', so i try and talk to her. I do talk to her about how I'm feeling but she's well, she's not very talkative when it comes to those type of things. Anyway she said 'i'm watching this programme, can i carry on watching it?' GAAAAAAAH! Then tonight, rang my sister (who is 5 weeks pregnant with her second child) only to be told that they're getting ready for bed, so i made a joke that she was getting ready for bed early, to which she replied rather snappily 'i am pregnant'. The baby is as big as a sultana right now, how tiring can that be? Maybe it is rather, I don't know. None of my sisters ever contact me. I'm stuck at home with no one my own age, hardly any sane friends to talk to, and feel like I'm worthless cos I don't have a baby (grandchild for my mum), I don't have a boyfriend, I have a crap job and I'm like I am.... fat, ugly and depressed. Feel so lonely. x