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WOULD YOU FORGIVE INFIDELITY???
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ButtercupFields | Report | 12 Mar 2005 22:37 |
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Dont be bashful Lynn. Tell it how it is!!!! lol BC |
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Small but Perfectly Formed Wendy | Report | 12 Mar 2005 22:36 |
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What should my mother in law do. Father in law((((NEARLY 70)))))) has just run off with his childhood sweetheart!!!! lol Wendy. |
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lynnchalmers70 | Report | 12 Mar 2005 22:36 |
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i'm afraid folks, i would make him pay. now that i've had his children, and no i don't want anymore, i would knacker his knackers |
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ButtercupFields | Report | 12 Mar 2005 22:34 |
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Thats o.k. Susan. XX BC |
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Gwyn in Kent | Report | 12 Mar 2005 21:16 |
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You maybe right BC, There probably are worse things than infidelity but for me the core point of a relationship is trust. Once someone has broken that trust, I don't think you can ever really get back to the pre infidelity state in a relationship. There will always be doubt about whether it might happen again. |
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Bec | Report | 12 Mar 2005 21:13 |
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Couldn't say as it'd depend on the situation. becx |
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VIVinHERTS | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:59 |
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I don't think I could ever forgive or forget. Viv |
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Researching: |
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Maz from Cornwall | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:58 |
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One word!!! NO!! Maz x |
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Sue Lambrini Smith | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:57 |
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harry is right- i have been trying to force him into it for ages........... |
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Unknown | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:53 |
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Depends what it came with - emotional infidelity is far more hurtful in my mind that physical infidelity |
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Sue Lambrini Smith | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:52 |
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if it was me, yes , i would forgive me, cos i am wonderfull !! if it was him- NO- , he would go the same way has hubby no1.... and anything they did worse than that- would not forgive them for either ! must be my forgiving nature, lol. |
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Magi | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:48 |
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It depends... with hubby 1 no-chance.. too young didn't have the University of Life Degree then... Second partner... he forgave me and we are still the best of mates... Present Hubby (keeps the man on his toes) if he thinks the grass be greener then go cut it, we've had a great 15 years, and if he ventures into pastures new then I will too Magi |
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ButtercupFields | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:28 |
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Hi Harry. No, for once, I was putting a serious thread on. Personally, I feel that there are much worse things than infidelity... BC |
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Harry | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:24 |
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Depends on the circumstances. Many men and ladies are ALMOST forced into it. Angie above, is right, you can forgive but not forget. I think this is a slightly jokey comment if there are any biblical scholars about, but doesn,t the bible tell us that to merely THINK lechery is the same as committing it. If that is the case we are going to have a very hot re-union of 90% of our members one day. happy days |
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ButtercupFields | Report | 12 Mar 2005 20:23 |
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Should'nt you be in the Pub thread Linda?... LOL BC |
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Margaret | Report | 12 Mar 2005 19:57 |
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NO |
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Speedy | Report | 12 Mar 2005 19:56 |
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Linda, I know your only joking, but I tell you it was good fun cutting up his best clothes and packing them up and taking them to his mistress, when he wanted to take her out she had to buy him some new clothes, also I wrote a note to him and seald it up with lots of things I knew she wouldn't want to hear, knowing that she would open the letter, their 1st night together they had a blazing row....theres nothing like a woman scorned. :))) Bev |
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Simon in | Report | 12 Mar 2005 19:52 |
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It's a trickey question but the only answer should be no. A relactionship is built on trust once thats gone no matter how much you love someone you'll always dout there word. All your left with is mistrust. If you forgive one allways be prepaired to forgive again. Once a cheat always a cheat. Once a doormatt always a doormatt Regards Simon. |
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Gwyn in Kent | Report | 12 Mar 2005 19:50 |
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I don't think I could but I do know couples who seem to be quite happy, many years after their partners' previous 'indiscretions'. |
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Unknown | Report | 12 Mar 2005 19:49 |
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Never had to, so can't say. Don't know how I'd react, but I think I would probably sling him out along with his dirty washing and screw all the money I could out of him. Then I might forgive. nell |
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