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huge black cloud and today is the day!!
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Fiona aka Ruby | Report | 3 Aug 2005 02:10 |
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You are not useless and a failure. A divorce is extremely stressful. You'd be very unusual if you sailed through it without a second thought. Don't beat yourself up. |
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Bec | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:43 |
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Was going to text you honey (had put a reminder in my phone about today). I'm sorry you're feeling like you are, am new to the whole depression thing myself but if you want to talk about it I'm always here for you. I am so very sorry that you're going through this, you above most people I know and love deserve such happiness, and you know what...? One day you will find it, because truly decent people like you get their just desserts eventually. Sending you loads of love and positive thoughts becx XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx |
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ChrisofWessex | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:35 |
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Pinky Girl - been there done it got the T-shirt - however there will be better things ahead. May not seem like it now but there will be - trust me. Divorce over and you can move ahead. Take care Ann |
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♫Jilly McMad♫ | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:34 |
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Babe....I am going thru the same right now....still fighting over the access issues etc....thought I would be pleased to see it all in writing and black and white but that just aint the case at all...its horrible - even when you know its for the best.......if you ever need a moan then please feel free to contact me.....I congratulate you for being strong enough to do the right thing by yourself ( and any kids you have). I am also going to see the doctor regarding depression as some days I feel I just cant cope and with the support of friends in real life and on here I know I will get thru it.....when I get my final divorce papers we should have a drink together in celebration and commiseration of what has happened and what should have been.... Huge big hugs to you right now as I can totally identify with you going thru this really tough time! Jill x x x x |
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Unknown | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:32 |
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Diana, Can't say anything -- just here if you need me x Even if I'm useless :)) |
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Unknown | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:32 |
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Yeah Pink!! I agree!! If you think about it.. we took our vows meaning every word of them at the time, now some guy in a suit tells us that we are no longer part of a couple!! we are on our own in the legal sense of the word! Having the divorce finalised is as emotional as having the marriage recognised!! It bl**dy hurts but its a different sort of pain!! Karen |
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PinkDiana | Report | 3 Aug 2005 01:25 |
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forgive my morbidness at the moment guys but i have a huge black cloud over me and i can't shift it!! This is not the whole reason but my divorce gets heard today and I can't bear it.... i never ever expected to be a divorcee and me no like it!! I know thats daft especially as i know my husband isn't the man for me right now, but its how i feel and I can't shift it!! Doc has declared me clinically depressed - my seratonin (sp??) levels are low apparently and my boss won't let me go to work!! feel useless and a failure.... and please don't think want your praise as that's the last thing I can accept right now.... all I want is for you all to just understand if i am not myself at the moment!! |
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