General Chat

hiya wendy is lovely. i wish i was her mam, and that would mean i was georges gran , YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS X

yes Bryan, I've exchanged a couple of mails too. I don't quite understand it at the moment, but seems she's decided to take a break for a few weeks after a bit of unpleasantness with another member. It would appear she'd rather disappear for a while without too much fuss... so I'll not make any more fuss - but I'm not happy !

I do hope that member is not me. we had a differance of opinion on a thread, but thats all that it was Elaine x

Wendy come back.

Leave it with you boys, as long as Wendy is okay. Look forward to hearing from you soon Wendy jess x

Maz well we are both suspects then but ill be darned if Ill leave Let people read the thread 'my heart is breaking'. I dont feel you or I posted anything so terrible. Elaine x

Come back Wendy dear.....XXXBC

add me to the list of suspects i did pm wendy earlier but i stand by what i said bev

Can we stop all this 'maybe it was me' please ? She hasn't said who caused her to leave. I'm sure if Wendy wanted whatever the dispute was to have been public, she would have made it public - instead she's chosen to quietly leave. Maybe we should respect that decision, even if we don't like it ?

..having had a looked at the thread that was mentioned i do now undertand why Bendy has gone. Crying for you sweetheart. love jess x

Hi all, Wendy's just emailed me to ask me to say on her behalf that you should all stop speculating about yourselves being responsible for her decision to leave the site. The person who upset her knows who they are, so Wendy would like to leave it at that. She's left of her own accord but will still be reading the Boards, and I for one hope she comes back. CB >|<

its a yesterday thread, been re-vitalised tonight. bendy was missing, someone nudged it with a reply tonight,nothing more. for crying out loud......

Paul, Just for once, why don't you STOP ordering people about? There are times when you REALLY get on my nerves, and this is one of them. CB >|<

bendy just wants a couple of days to chill out...so lets respect that please....she will be back with us soon,even if i have to drive to yorkshire and sort her out! i think hormones have been causing a few problems this week,and we all need to take a step back,and take a few deep breaths....bendy has not left the building!!! bryan.

oh for heavens sake ! how is what I've said radically different from what you've said ? as for me irritating you ? frankly I'm not bothered. goodnight everyone.

Peter, I also know the same things Bryan has posted - does that make me a candidate for her 'other half' as well. You're trying to make something out of nothing. Wendy's not here and won't be for a while. This thread was obviously not started today but was added to today. If someone's just seen it on a different page and decided to add to it, there's no harm in that. There's far too much suspicion about on this Board at times, and most of it is unwarranted. It just causes problems. I'm off to bed now, so I'll leave you all to carry on your 'discussion', but remember what I posted earlier - WENDY has said she doesn't want people hashing over this issue, and it would be nice if people respected her wishes. Good night, all! CB >|<

It seems that the weekend is upon us once again!! Why Oh Why?? does this always happen at the weekend??? Wendy.... if you are looking in, please do not disappear from the site!!! A lot of us really admire you and will miss your contributions a great deal!!! Even if we seem to be keeping our heads down at the moment!! Good luck, in whatever you decide!! Karen

I just saw this thread. Didn't see whatever the offending one was. I'm sorry Wendy has decided to quit for a while but she's sensible she knows what she's doing, I will certainly respect her wishes and look forward to her return when she decides. Thinking of your Benders. Jan xx

For the record It wasnt me after all ...phew !...but I dont know who it was... Hope you are feeling a bit calmer today Bendy, and I hope you sort out your differances with the person you have had the hoo har with. Elaine x

I understand it all very well, Wendy has no reason to go as far as I am concerned. As I have just told you Wendy: GET YOUR BACKSIDE BACK WOMAN... ALL OF IT. lol