General Chat

{{{{{{{{{{{{ HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}} Elaine x

Still need a hug ? You're welcome to one anytime (((hug))) Paul xxx (ps, I can vouch for Becs hugs - excellent lol)

Thanks to all of you, Mark has decided lasr night he doesnt want to go back to England at the end of the year. I knew this was going to happen. It was his idea to move back to England. I have never been happy here but have stayed becuase of him. He told me in January this season would be his last and we would comehome. He has built my hopes up so much and they have all just came crashing down last night. I dont know what to do. My parents are here on Tuesday. They have bought a car and put us on the van insurance for the fmaily business. It has cost them over 10,000 to sort us out with jobs in the business.

Natalia, No wondered you need a ((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))) Won't he change his mind, after all your feelings must be considered. There you were all excited about your Mum and Dad coming and then this. Bet you are dreading telling them. MARK SHE WANTS TO COME HOME. Hope he heard that Hope something can be sorted out Love Linda xxxx

Better late than never. ((((((Hug))))))

Linda, I am hoping it is cold feet. He loves being home when he is there. He loves being the superstar here. It still hurts when he says things like that though.

Natalia, I hope you are feeling a bit better now, Love and Hugs, June xx

hiya natalia.ahh chuck whats up. come here while i give you a big hug x

Natalia, I think I understand the disappointement. Hopefullyit's just cold feet as you say, and you can talk him round. Good Luck Paul x

Natalia - l am sorry, can you not talk to him and explain how you feel and how he made you feel when you thought you were moving back, surely he realises. Hope it gets sorted, enjoy your parents visit - chin up and loads of hugs on way:o)))) ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) jude sarf wales x

Hi Jude, He knows how I feel. He knows how he made me feel last night. I cannot bear to even look at him today. Never mind talk to him. He would just shout back anyway so it would be a waste of time. Natalia x

natalaia, im so sorry your feeling so sad, men hmm typical, ive been where you are now , one minute we were coming home next he was nervous about making the move, we even moved nearer home, (well back to britain anyway), but when we finally got back home to wales , well thats another story, you go and tell that mark to bring you home , butter him up by saying just go home for winter, and see how you feel, once hes spoilt by your mam hell wonder why he was worried, he could also leave where you are now on a high rather than hold on and hold on, im thinking of you and send you hugs , i know how much you want to come home

Natalia Great big ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))) I'm a real huggy person! I hope you can sort things out, I know how you feel as I have a real'stubborn' one too! Lets hope he sees some sense soon, take care, love Joan xxxxxx

Thanks girls, Debby I'm in Mallorca. Natalia xx

Natalia, I just logged on and saw this. ((((((((((((((((((BIG BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))) for you. So sorry he's being so selfish - that's probably why he's shouting he knows he's being selfish. I hope he can think of your feelings pretty soon and that you can both talk it through. Take care Jan xx

Take this one honey..... {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} ......and feel the warmth and love oozing from it.....Then remember how good it feels inside that there is alway's someone there waiting for you to lean on their shoulder ....That will be me.....Big kisses and cuddles honey of a special kind for a special person.... Love Susie xx

Oh Jan, I just wish he would be not snappy with me just once. Hes supposedly Mr Happy at work but comes home and is so moody its unbeleivable. I cant cope with it. I dont see him for hours and when I do he is just such a misery. My paretns are here on Tuesday and my dad is such a wind up. If hes moody with them my dad will just take the pee out of him. I can see him snapping at him too.

Thanks Susie, God, I'm no good today - just keep breaking down every time I read these messages.

Natalia, I think I like your Dad already LOL Try to enjoy your parents visit, they deserve it and so do you. Join your Dad in the wind-up and don't let Mark bully you. Your parents sound like very good people to me. Jan :-) xx

i wish i could shout at him you enjoy your mum and dad coming over to see you and mark, dont you dare show off, natalia , your mum and dad will know as soon as they get there how your feeling, try not to worry, persuasion will work im sure, persuade mark, bribe him, threaten him, anything , but make sure your back home soon