General Chat

bev we need some entertainment besides we could make him an girl for the night but if he lets the secrets of girly nights in out we will have to kill him what do you think???

everyone welcome could use all the friends i can get at the min

Dave which bit of ' girly night in' did you NOT understand????? strictly girls only, but we will let you buy the wine cos we are generous like that lol Bev

i live in leicester thats sound like a good idea come on girls!!!!!!!

Who is a pain? No....and we all have rough times and need a shoulder....and there's loads of broad ones to lean on here xxxx

you really want to find his sensitive side??? get a new hairdo, manicure, new dress/make up. then go out on the town, make sure HIS mates see you, having a good time. Act young free and single, (something he can't do with his new girl if there is a child in tow) then stand back and watch him weep. other than that i find a bottle (or 2) of wine on a girly night in, heh where do you live? perhaps all us girls could desend en mass and we an have a good 'slagging off men ' session Bev

ahh thanks peeps sorry for being a pain.xxxxxxxxxx

ahh serena some men are like that .women just love affection ,security and loyalty is what we give some men but they do not like settling down and making commitment.i am not referring to all men but some.loyalty is our middle name and they just stamp on that.you do get some b******s but you can also find men who are worth settling down with.don't give up hope.you will find a nice man.your look back in a few months time and think what the hell did i see in him.it will get better.love and hugsxxxxxxxxxxx(((:

thanks its just hard having no friends he was my life and now am left lifeless

Give yourself a break, be kind to yourself for a bit...cry if you need to....then you will have the strenght to pick up and start again...it may not feel good now, but you will come through. Lots of us have, men and women, the hurt will fade...but for now work through it and get it out of your system. Good luck xxx

dont want to upset any one sorry but just dont know where to go from here????

Unfortunately, it is a sweeping generalisation as has been pointed out. A friend of mine told me once that she couldn't help falling for 'bad boy' types who turned out to be 'insensitive pigs'. I could never work out the attraction of this and for a while, I started making sweeping generalisations that all women are like this. But it's not the case.

It really is true that a lot of nice men are out there. and also some really horrible women, but if you are hurt you can't see that....but the sun always comes out againxxxx

sorry and thanks just feeling a bit raw at the min

hi Saranna (as has already been said, nice name). Sorry, you rattled my cage a little so to speak - but I thought that a 'typical woman' comment deserved a 'typical male' response :) Paul

Gwynne, very good porcine Paul xx

firstly paul thats a typical man thing to say. and thank you for being so nice he left me for a girl who had a child after telling me he never wanted any kids around him. he now flaunts her around where i live when he has no real need to caome here he cut me pff from all of my friends i have no one really to talk to. thanks for the hugs though.

Like Roxanne I kissed an awful lot of frogs before I found and married my prince, sadly I married a frog first! lol They aren't all bad and some of them can even drive and stuff too! Julie xxx

MASSIVE <<<HUG>>> for you sweetie 'They' aren't ALL bad (Paul is quite nice at times... lol) love becx

sorry but... lol at Gwynne!