General Chat

Elaine.... Like I've said b4....I, like alot of peeps don't read every thread....unless we're trying to figure out who said wot about who......if you hadn't of mentioned it alot of people wouldn't have known or be interested in what he said.........I've figured it all out now cos I was curious & was bored....lol Just bite your lip n chill.....we all have to sometime. Two strong personalities always clash at some time.....but like everything in life........we have to learn to take aswell as give... :)x

right Im back from my dinner :o)) Lou and Lisa I apologised for my outburst on Chat. I was angry, I do not like to be badmouthed for no reason. Especially if the badmouthing is untrue...which it is ! For the record Jim took what happened on his thread over to Chat FIRST and decided to badmouth me there. I had a right to reply. Jules If you read Jims 'Deleted threads' thread You will understand that jims comments on chat are aimed at me. Hence my first posting on this thread to him. Im not letting him get away with badmouthing me E x

Hello Elaine.... Did I say you could get out from behind that sofa....lol..?? Sittin on the fence here....but just read chat back and couldn't actually see any mention of your name......how did you know he was referin to you....??...don't think many peeps would have noticed if you hadn't of mentioned it. P'haps would have been better to have 'pm' him rather than draw attention to it...?? Jules.... :)xx

Surely this is between just the two of you? In my opinion threads arguing between each other are getting a bit ridiculous..... I have no idea what happened and don't wish to but have been dragged into something as was on chat at athe time of both of your outbursts....... Thanks for your apology to chat peeps though Elaine, that was good.... Sally in sydney

Elaine i think that is all being blown out control, people make comments that people dont like, just accept it and move on, i have read a couple of threads you have contributed to and my opion is you tend to target men for some reason, but that's your choice, and i know you will not take this comment likely, but that's my opion Regards

well said lisa

elaine i say chat is a friendly site and i can understand your annoyance but please do not bring the argument over there..just ignore it or email him direct..do you know how tiring this is getting now!

I am not going to fight in any way cos my tummy is too full. But as for answering on threads, I consider it only polite to answer as many on a thread as possible. I don't post many now, but if I have I will go back and check a thread and add a reply....even on silly fun threads. Because then it shows you have enough manners than just post and run, otherwise why post a thread.? Yes sometimes it may have looked as if I posted twice to nudge my thread....more likely I spotted someone I missed and went back, as I like to answer as many as possible, then everyone feels their opinion mattered, even a nonsense one on a silly thread.

Elaine Enjoy! Angela

Maddy Chins luv not chin LOL ! E x ps off to dinner

Thanks Angela. Im going to have dinner in a moment, no doubt either this thread will be gone or Jim will crawl out of the woodwork to answer E x

I,m afraid ,Like you,I would have been annoyed if he had attacked me in that fashion.There is no reason for that sort of behaviour as far as I can see.Keep your chin up and dont let him get you down. (((((hugs))))) Maddy

Oh my giddy Aunt - I must have posted about half a million threads this last wee while - does that mean I want to be in the limelight????

Elaine I know - I saw, and am not agreeing with what he has done, nor dissing what you are saying. Just felt it was a case of 'pot and kettle' .............. he has his fair share same as the rest of us, and currently has more than you so I don't see he has room to criticise. Anne xx

Elaine, he's definitely being unnecessary!!!! But take a deep breath - its the only way to survive. If people stress you out in life they've got one over on you and all you do is lose. I learned that the hard way (through a nervous breakdown). Your posts on the general board speak for themselves so please don't be wound up by someone who expresses an opinion without checking the facts - there are always going to be people who do that. If his opinion were generally shared others on here wouldn't answer your threads. I never, ever, engage with anyone I feel is a troublemaker, even if the topic appears innocent, as I can't trust them. But I'm engaging with you and I only talk to people I think are genuine and fair minded on these boards. Angela

anne I have no problem with that, but he was insinuating some post to get their faces on the board so to speak, like they want to dominate the boards all the time. Thats why I replied on his thread and said I was angry about his comment He then bad mouths me on CHAT !

Well - let's be honest - we all like our '5 minutes' don't we or we wouldn't post. You both have had your fair share of postings just like the rest of us - no problem with that surely?? He has 4 to your 3 Elaine - so that's 20 minutes for him then lol :O))

Maddy Its made me so angry I replied to his 'Thread deletion' thread He diddnt like what I put. ...It angered me that he said some liked their 5 mins of fame because they like to see their name on the board. Reading his posts on Chat, it appears that he HAS got a bee in his babys bonnet about my conga thread. Sad little man makes it sound as if hes jealous. Elaine x

I just read the chat board and think his remarks were a bit strong,what is wrong with these threads just lately?There are so many people at each others throats,why cant everyone just be a little tolerant towards each other? Its bound to cause trouble if people say nasty things about other people. Sorry for butting in like this,but I hate injustice in any form. Maddy

ooops he is already on it lol xxhugxx