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...and it's driving me mad because I cant figure out the offending thread! lol BC

I also threw my keyboard at the computer when someone upset me on here LOL Now some of the keys dont work but i dont know if thats my fault!! Lindy, ive just taken up Kickboxing lessons, apparently thats a good way to let my emotions out xxx

*mental note... don't make Steph angry... we wouldn't like her when she's angry* Sue, what do I do when something upsets me ? Well it really does depend on the circumstances. Normally I just talk things through with my mates and they calm me down. There are often threads on here that I don't like and I either ignore them, or comment if I feel the need. Or mock. I do that frrequently lol. I've only been REALLY upset once, and decided to leave, but friends talked me round and they were right - the person wasn't worth it. Hope you manage to sort this one out and either convince the person to delete the thread, or learn to ignore it. Paul xxx

Me thinks the new flat should come with one of those punch bags you hang from the ceiling xxhugxx

I used to have a bit of an anger problem, so i had to get it sorted out. Its really hard now cos when i get angry i just want to hurt that person who has upset me, but instead i now end of crying cos i get so angry i have to let it out soemhow...but in the past year i have.. -Broken my hairdryer (thrown against the wall) -Broken Phone (threw it out the window) -Broken a plate (threw it at aaron) -Broken my ironing board (kicked it against the wall) -Broken the iron (it was on the ironing board) -Bruised 3 toes on right foot (kicked the door) -Broken the door frame (busted the front door open after aaron wouldnt let me in) Whoops LOL! xxx

hi sue good thread but with me it would depend on the reason normally i just brush things over top of my head. to the way i deal with upsets i have cryed in anger before now, but that makes me feel worse as nothing get resolved depends on who and what

Well I hope you sorted it out, Sue. I will not have you getting upset. XXX BC

Do what I did the other day on the board have a hissy fit and get it out of your system lol xxhugxx

Bottle it up inside brood about it cry a lot then do somthing totaly stupid that i'll regret

Message that memeber and explain why you feel its distasteful? if they throw it back in your face, just ignore it. Jess

Oh dear.... no one has upset me directly..... BC would not let them ! It is just a thread that keeps popping up .... that i really really find odd and distastefull ...... But..... such is life. Sue xxx

Aw Lou ... you are lovely ! I have pm'd the person concerned.... but i thought it was only me that thought things were out of order . But having spoken to someone else on here...... i am happy to say, i am not alone with my misgivings...... Sue xxx

Now your talking CB! PMSL!! lou xx

Get angry, swear, shout and throw stuff.

Sue who the Hell has upset you ??????? you where ok till I went check my e-mails Babs

Ohhhhh Nooooo.... I've just come online... It's not someone on here upset you???? I thought it was like a re..erm y'no... one of them questions without an answer.. lol... If it is someone on here i would contact them in a dignified mannor and explain i was upset and get ti sorted.... Well, actually.... thats what i should do... but i dont, my temper usually gets in the way, lol.. Hope whatever it is it's not upset you too much! lou xxxxx

Ginny.... excellent advice ! I will do that.... if i havent already !!! Sue xxx

oooh.. Lou .. just seen the last bit ! You are soooo naughty...... Pmsl, SUE XXX

I would talk to a mukker who is on the same wave length just to remind myself that I am the sane one and everyone else has gone loop the loop xxxx

mmmm .. good advice Lou ......... will try and do that .... might have to avoid this site for a few days though ..... Sue x