General Chat

I'm not confused Nelly ... I got the PM's... I know who sent them and I know who warned me ... end of story for me. Those of you who want to think the worst of me ... go ahead. I asked the person to stop and they wouldnt ...said before .. I would name names if it happened continually. Mike

mike i dont understan i dont hurt people, the last one before tonight wa me asking you to read my thrsead about my dad dying an i felt guilty for thirty yesars

Oh dear. Another one of those threads. Honestly, why can't everyone just have a nice friendly chat on here - like most of us do? I don't know what's happened 'cos I didn't see any of the threads. They were removed before I switched on. Beats me what people get out of being nasty! Margaret

Oh hek Mr Blue, I don't know what to say cept at least you came back...and I never ever just see one side of you and thats on board cos we dinny pm....but can you and Gwen not speak, as I thought you two got on, I canny judge as I don't know whats up really....but just take 5 and do some talking to each other...I hate people getting upset, and i mean you too.....please :-) XX i don't want to interfere but you never rude to me so just want to make it ok

Mike, would you be so willing as to tell all who is 'warning' you??? Not really fair to assume it's Gwen and not the other person is it??? LOU XXXXXXXXXXX

Thanks for that explanation, Christine. Pretty wierd that though isn't it? People pretending to be someone else! Margaret

Another thought might be, has anyone got access to Gwen's computer? Someone who might want to cause her trouble? I don't know Mike and I don't know Gwen, other than on these boards. They both seem reasonable people to me, and sensible adults, so i can't see why Gwen would PM Mike and I can't see why Mike would say she had if she hasn't, so i am just trying to think 'outside the box'. Ann Glos

Contact GR in the morning, both of you. if gwen knows categorically that he has been at her own computer whilst these messages were being sent, then she know categorically that it wasnt her. GR have the means to establish exactly WHO did send these messages to AB, I would have said it was alomost impossible for someone else to log in with Gwens details whilst she was on site, so the membership number of the sender will come into play here. they can use her name maybe, but NOT her membership number and i would have certainly thought NOT whilst gwen was actve on the site GR will be a able to resolve this. hang fire both of You-GR will able to sort it out jess

this isthe last message i sent mike,befoer tonight i sentit after posting onsaturday my dark secret how i feel guilty about my dad dying an it was my fault ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ read my new thread about my dark secret maybe you may understand how i hurt easy.but i dought it

mike can i ask please how was i supposed to set you up,bit confused

A while ago someone was sending complaints to abuse pretending it was me. I found out when abuse mailed me to say they had removed this item...and that item... I mailed abuse and told them I never mailed them at all, What they had done, was change their email address in the fields to mine (must have been a past contact of mine)..ive now changed my addy and password btw They then changed their own name to Harlowgirl in the name space. there was more aspects to this which I wond disclose for fear of copycat nasties But the matter was passed to genes. Meercat had simular problem at the time. so I would say to Gwen ?? mail abuse if you feel someone has sent abusive emails on your behalf and let genes sort it out. On investigation, they will find out the truth ps, the member number abuse sent back to me with their reply wasnt mine...jess is right...change your name but not your number Elaine x

okay Mike is it you want me gone from here need to know., i ignored a warning an im paying for it,because i told them your okay

awh, enough is enough, getting really tired of all the shlite on here, I by nature am the type to stay away from contentious threads but now when it comes to picking on Gwen, I'm really pi$$ED and it takes me a lot to get mad. I can say categorically without a doubt Gwen would not do something that would hurt someone else. If someone has used her ID thinking to cause problems for others it sounds like the one who really got hurt here is Gwen. I have eighteen nieces and nephews plus my own kids and I don't think any one of them has ever been as childish as some of the things I see on here. NOT FAIR !!!!!!!!!!! GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gwen will pm you in a bit. Deb

Gwen, it's not worth getting upset about babe.... mike is obviously out to attack tonight...maybe, eventually, when all becomes clear (and it will... it always does..) You and him will exchange words on a friendly basis again... LOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Gwen I echo what Toothfairy has said - please don't get so upset - it's not worth it. AB is just one person on here - you have lots of friends - do as Jess suggests and sort it out with GR. Debby

You are totally wrong Lou ... not on the attack at all ... quite the opposite ... just asking to be left alone thankyou. And Gwen ... lets just leave it at that. Mike

Mike I'm sorry but Gwen has every right to be upset!! She says she hasn't PM'd you and I believe her - so both of you need to contact ABUSE and sort it out!!

Dear Blue, no one wants to upset you, we just want to know everything is okay, too many mothers I guess Barbara..xx

maybe wrong usage of words there Blue, Apologies... I mean that you are on the defence, being defensive, lashing out..bla bla... Mike, i honestly DONT think it was Gwen...I hope you two can sort it out...She was genuinely gutted the other day when she thought you'd left the site.... Please just ask yourself how reliable the 'other' person is...and also how accurate they are..people have been decieved on here before Mike... LOU XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXx

With comments such as lynda's ... I realise its time to go ... no point staying here. Bye all