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Joan, I sincerely hope you are right, I have four other children each coping in their own different ways, and then me, plus my Son's partner, we need to do this privetly.

Jenny, It is usual for an inquest to be opened within 1 or 2 days of the death and adjourned for reports if the death was unexpected. You are not usually told about this and there is no reason to attend the first one as it is normally just to record the death officially. Under the circumstances it would appear that there are many questions to be answered and the only way to help you is to bring all the queries out into the open so that you will know that no stone has been left unturned in order to answer them. It is hard, I know, the pain seems to go on and on, you literally feel your heart is breaking but believe me, although I am reminded of my son many times a day, the pain does ease with time. Katx

Jennifer, I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I hope I didn't cause you any distress. Joy xxx

I do hope you get some answers soon to help you understand what happened. Thoughts to all involved. Jacky x

I stuopidly thought having a cause would ease the pain, but who am i FOOLING............

sending you hugs jennifer bacardi xxxx

Thank you

Jennifer, I am so sorry that you are going through all this. It must be unbearable. I am sending you a hug. Thinking of you Love Chris x

Love & Hugs. Thinking of you. Hilary. xx

Dear Jennifer I am so sorry to hear about your son. The hurt must be unbearable for you all. As you say, the it won't disappear once you know the cause, but it's understandable that you need to know. I hope you don't have to wait too long and as some have said, SURELY they will tell you privately before proceeding with formalities. Thinking of you all at this very sad time. Margaret

Thank you living a hazy life at the moment but .........

jennifer, so sorry to hear of your sad loss,my heart goes out to you. love and great big hugs to you and your family. gwen x

sorry to hear of your loss ((()))x

I of course cannot answer your much needed answer. I am so very sorry for your loss, i cannot begin to know how you feel right now....my son is 22, yr loss is unimaginable. With love Donna and Dave xx

You are absolutely right - it is so incredibly insensitive. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Kaye x

I think it is disgusting too. You have a right to be told in private.

I can not say anything to make this easier! I hope all goes well and you find the answers you are looking for! I feel for you so much! Take care. xxx

dear jen, just at to send a message. as reading this bought up such a lot of memories for myself .as myself and my family had to go threw the same thing seven years ago. i tragically lost my sister and it's not very nice.but if this did not happen you would not get the answers you need to know.i'm not famillar with how you lost your son.and i don't mean to pry.but i just wanted to send my love and support and i can't begin to know how you must be feeling at this very sad time.and my heart goes out to you and if you ever want any support i'm hear and i know lots of other poeple are to......all my love gwyneth

Jennifer I can only echo the words others here have already said. I cannot begin to imagine how you are feeling, but I pray that with time things will become easier to bare. My thoughts are with you. Pauline xx (((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

(((((hugs))))) Bev