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love to jess, thanks for all your help.xx

Looks like D.D has been barred too. Sorry to be late with this, but I have always enjoyed the friendly banter with those - and they know who they were. If GR could fix their own problems instead of worrying about other peoples' perceived probs this would be a better site. Regards, Bernie

...sent this to feedback but still awaiting proper reply...also posted on the success board.... I made contact with a previously unknown blood relative on this site just recently and was grateful to all the advice found on the many adoption threads, managed diligently by Jess and other incredibly helpful and supportive members. I'm in no doubt that you by now realise just how many of your members you have alienated by barring Jess from the GR site....I am still very unclear of what your reason for this is, however, I hazard a guess you may be regretting your decision. People searching for relatives for geneology and family trees fall into many categories, and by the number of messages attached to each adoption thread, hundreds more than any other threads, it's plain to all that the adoption triangle is one of the major categories of people seaching for relatives. I was so excited to find such a popular site frequented by so many people involved in the adoption triangle and just made my first posting after spending a couple of months browsing thru previous threads. I believe you have made a grave error in judgement barring such a helpful and popular character on all these boards and am certain that this will find it's way into the national press momentarily. I look forward to you posting a full explanation of the situation on here for us all to see as I am furious that my postings now appear to have disappeared, knowing that I have not committed any offence under the board rules. I eagerly await your response to my email. ....still wondering what the heck happened, all seems like a molehill that this website have decided to make into a mountain, very disappointing! CR

elaine, this cant be true jess barred NEVER . what has she surpposed to have done . i have'nt been on here for a couple of days so know nothing of this, but jess always helps people SHE CANT BE BARRED please tell jess i'm thinking of her [[[[[[[[[[[[[[[HUGS]]]]]]]]]]]]] hazel.

I PM'd Jess earlier..no way of knowing if it got through........... Elaine.........you're welcome to give Jess my e-mail........in any event, let her know how digusted all the right-minded GR members are at the shoddy way she has been treated. All on the unsupported say-so of one spiteful little person Reg

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I've just come on and have seen this thread, so I don't know what has happened I did see the other day someone having a dig at Jess.. This is awful has the other person been banned.. Jess has pointed me in the right direction on a fews times. Thankyou Jess.. Pat

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Jess doesn't know me, but she has helped me on more than occasion. I read all of the thread concerned, and would just like to add my support for Jess, along with everyone else. Today is a sad day for GR. Sharon xx

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Mary/CB a non-paying member has asked that I add her support for Jess. They weren't her exact words, you understand. Bendy Wendy also adds support for her. Gwynne

I am absolutely amazed at this. Jess was the first person to help me on here,and point me in the right direction, what on earth has she done? Gloria

Elaine, I have managed to send an email to Jess. M.

Doing one of my nudges … even though some dislike me nudging important threads - tough! MM

Well it beggars belief, Jess barred, what the hell for ????? All her threads made sense, this b****y doesn't. My best wishes to her please. Sunny R ( now sad Rosy)

I don't know what's gone on to warrent Jess being banned, but I am appalled. She was so helpful to both me and loads of other people with her advice - particularly with regards to adoption and she will be greatly missed. AL

I pmd her - I hope it got through Jay

This stinks i haven't emailed GR yet as it takes me ages to word a letter properly and judging form the last one it will be probably be a waste of time and energy. I got the automated reply cannot discuss 3rd parties when I ponted out they had missed the point I was not wishing to discuss a particular 3rd party etc. I got zilch back. Don't think they had an automated reply to fi!!!. Will pm you Elaine. Germaine x