General Chat

Ok I'm sorry Maz, I thought they were. I apologise. I'm just a bit sensitive after a personal attack, thats all I can say. I'm on your side..honest!

Maz, I just find that to speak out about an injustice, once, is enough for me... I dont feel the need to go on about it..what happened is obviously the work of a very sick person, as I have said elsewhere...merely my opinion, of course. BC

errr my remarks weren't aimed at you Teresa? my first post on here was general - perhaps I should have used 'one' instead of 'you' - but that's a bit too posh for me. my other posts were answering people as I said, it's my OPINION Maz

First of all David, I never had a problem with Lynda, and have told her so, still have the PM. However, its clear she has some sort of problem with me. Secondly, I am not in the habit of posting PRIVATE messages on the boards, but I will take that step if you want. however, as you are now going to go away, I'll say no more ********************************************************** Hayley Caz and TOR thank you XXX MAZ, I do not and never have condoned bullying of any kind, never have and never will. I do NOT condone what has happened on the candle site, which if you read what I posted on your thread you will know, and not made that comment toward me. I will reiterate what I said earlier. I am sure there is ONE very sick person doign this, it was done with the same venom and spite last week towards Donna. I am ashamed to say, whoever it is, is clearly a member here, who maybe does not post except under a variety of names, like the success board poster did, in fact I think it is probably the same person. I actually feel concern for Lynda and her daughter, I feel she should have named and shamed the hospital concerned for the benefit of others but as she chose not to, I left it alone. I did NOT try to make her out to be a liar of any kind. I have ahd to say goodbye to my son in the past, due to a ruptured spleen, and know what its' like to be scared out of your wits for your offspring. My son survived, but by the skin of his teeth, and to say what might be the last thing I ever say to him is not something I would wish on anyone. So please don't assume that I am not sympathetic toward anyone who's son or daughter has had to be rushed to hospital.

BC - it is just my opinion that if we are strongly against something we should speak out against it - that goes for all injustices in life. Maz.

I never doubted for a moment that you would condemn it Ann - I feel I know you well enough to know that. I just wanted to clarify what I had said so that it couldn't be twisted ! Maz

Well said BC - I've said similar on Gwynnes thread but you always put it better!. Debby

Maz, it surely goes without saying that we all condemn the truly nasty things which were put on the Candle site? Because we do not shout and yell does not mean that we condone.

Maz, If you have checked the candles recently you will see that I added a message of my own condemning what was on there. Ann Glos

I agree Ann well said..

Ann I am asking for the ACT to be condemned - the person(s) responsible are not brave enough to stand up and confess - they are cowards and bullies and will probably get away without being identified. However in my opinion we are all as bad as them if we don't take a stand and speak out. Maz.

I will say that yes, I do condemn what happened to Lynda (i.e. the vile messages on the candles), it was horrible and an insult to all who use the candle site to gain strength for genuine things. Lynda didn't deserve to be treated publicly like that. But I also have to say that until we actually know who the person or people is or are who have done this evil thing, we should be careful. It just could be somebody we least expect it to be who has caused absolute mayhem on here today and is now laughing, I am not prepared to condemn anyone until I know for certain who it is. I will stay on my guard of course but we do need proof of who is doing these things. Somebody is sick and needs treatment of that i am sure, we could make wild guesses but there is no guarantee that we will be right and we could end up causing more hurt and trouble. Ann Glos

it was done in the name of 'all on GR' - perhaps you're happy with that ... I for one most certainly am not the condemn/condone statement was MY opinion - or am I not allowed one ??

Teresa, wasn't gonna add to this thread but have now read enough to make me change my mind. I just want to say that I'm honoured to call you a friend. T.O.R. xx

Just remember many of us have been hurt on this board, Teresa you always show care on threads and are the first to offer help to ALL and you have the respect of many. You do not hound anyone, I was also accused of that, caz x

FFS who says we do ? Or is this you just deciding you know what we are all thinking that seems to be the culture of late ?

I would love to see how forgiving some of you would be if what happened to Lynda, happened to YOU. As far as I am concerned ... if you don't condemn it, then you condone it. Enough said. Maz.

teresa can i say publically that you have my utmost respect, your words are so true. Wrong has been done by many people to many people, cant we all just talk to whom we choose to talk to like adults? I was also warned in PMs not to talk to certain people, I choose my friends and dont have them chosen fo me, Take care TW, Caz xxxxx

OOps Maz's thread has gone now - will this be next? Still 13 candles lit! 'she'says bye on the last one - do you think she has stopped!?

Why is that David because she added to the thread ? Or because she was concerned that other people will try to take sick or injured people to the same CLOSED hospital ?