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Of course there is the Obvious answer,"!Stop hitting him on the head with the frying pan" should be ok then.other than that, Is he suffering from Eyestrain? Working in bars at night could cause it. Take care, **M**.

Hello Uzzi my old friend.

It's a difficult one this. You seem to have eliminated all the obvious possibilities.

The only thing I can suggest is that you install a recording device midway between your respective heads.

If, when you play it back in the morning, you hear only the sound of you singing in your sleep then I fear that your soonest visit to a vocal tutor may be his only hope !

Dame for us moving to the living room wouldn't be a problem as both our sofas are sofa beds, I am reluctant to do that at the moment as our dogs are creatures of habit and we have only just got them settled to a night time routine. Mind if need be we will all sleep in the lounge. OH is more important even if he doesn't agree.

Tania you are welcome to try and hog tie my OH, I am at the moment just agreeing with him and eliminating all outside factors when they are done he has no choice but to see a doc. I may seem light hearted about it all but please believe me I am worried, as I said earlier he is the love of my life.
If it was piddling and I wasn't worried this thread wouldn't exist, it's my way of coping with a bull headed OH

i no it may sand like i lot of bother but carnt you put you matrice in the liveing area for a coupel of nites just to make share 100% that it is the bed room

Uzzi it does not have to be an outside factor.
To me the obvious factor is lying down and my suggestion is he have an immediate review by his doctor as this can be caused by a range of things some of which can be pretty serious.
Honestly DOCTOR TODAY even if you have to hog tie him

Thanks Dolly, it's not carpets as it's a laminate floor and the bedding is the same as we used to have. I haven't changed the washing powder or anything like that. if turning the gas bottles off doesn't work then I am going to have to nag for a doctor. I hadn't thought about the laying down bit. Will suggest tomorrow when he's on nights that he has his siesta on the settee, not ideal with 2 mutts jumping on him and me around, but if the headache arrives then it's a definate doctor job. Luckily he has a week off from next Wednesday and although we still have a lot to do getting straight I will make sure he gets some rest, just incase it is tiredness. Work in the summer months is mayhem for him working in a bar, some nights he doesn't get home till 2am, and with the move coming straight on top in the hottest August the area has seen in 50years can't help.
I can't help but worry as they are not little headaches but full blown almost migraine heads. Trouble is if I nag he gets edgy and my temper isn't the sweetest. (mind nor is his, volcanos come to mind when we both blow lol ). I may have to resort to the tears and hope for the best.

Its it new carpets? bedding? or perhaps it is just tiredness, men can be so stubborn when it comes to seeing a GP, I think you need to nag him into a guilt trip :) Is he eating or drinking anything different?
There is something wrong but what I don't know. Perhaps now he expects a headache at night or on a siesta and so gets one.
He hasn't got a neck problem has he? that can cause headaches and laying down might be the trigger for the headache.
if the headache is enough for him to mention then it should be looked into.
Good Luck in getting him to a GP.

Dolly X

Well it wasn't the freezer as it happened again last night/this morning. We didn't turn the gas bottles off because by the time OH got in from work and had a coffee (gas kettle) I had gone to sleep, but tonight we will turn them off.
Have checked for mold and there is nothing.
It's got to be something to do with the bedroom as the headache clears when he gets up.

Do you have any mold issues? Mold spores can cause problems too.

Rose

Thankyou both kemp and sue ...t'is not me has the worry about sleeping but I would hate to lose him, after all he is the love of my live.

Have a restful night and take extra care....

hugs

Well sleep well Uzzi and take care ........

Kemp all fridge stuff have a form of gas bottle and yes I worry about ours ..not because it's old which it isn't but because we keep moving it. But I still say we have slept with windows open since we have moved as the lowest night time temp is still around 26deg and the open window is above the freezer.

Taking no chances mind freezer out

Sue I will, I didn't think I could get to them easy (have trouble getting in small places under vans) but I can and will turn off tonight

In the back of all freezers (Ithink) there is a gas of some kind thats why they have to be got rid of carefully!!

Like people say get all your gass supplies checked

Uzzi,,Please Please Turn the bottles off tonight and see how OH goes tonight.


Please....

It's not a gas freezer just an ordinary household one but it does hum as I hear it and get annoyed with it then ignore and sleep. Worst I have is the tick of the battery clock ....which we will need when OH does days.

yes I will let you know how things go tonight.

Kemp I am such a scaredy about gas. when we lived in the RV I used to shut the bottle off every night, and there was no leak on that. lol

Yes I can hear lamps and electric/radio clocks buzzing at night so had to get rid!!

BUT like people are saying do check the freezer for leaks aswel.

Is it a gas freezer as that could be giving off carbon dioxide if there is a problem with the cooler on it?

Let us know if he has a better night now you have put it outside.