General Chat

I am very sorry to read about your sister dying at such a young age.It is terrible to watch a loved one in so much pain and discomfort and not being able to do something to ease it.
May you find the strength to get through this sad time, and hope your sister's passing is a peaceful one.Bless you both.

Pam, I am so sorry this is happening to your poor sister and your family, it's so hard to watch loved ones suffer, my Dad had the same awful illness but we only knew about it for a few months, from August to the following January.
I hope you can find some comfort in the fact that you were able to do a lot to help your sister and have shared so much, yes, you will miss her but you will meet again one day and meanwhile will have those memories to call on and laugh and cry over. She will always be a part of you.
I can only wish Debbie a gentle passing, I expect she is sedated as my Dad was and will hopefully have a loved one gone before waiting to help her through and be with her so she will not be alone.
You will be in my thoughts as you go through the next hours and days, as will Debbie and all the family and friends she will leave behind.

Lizxx

So sorry to hear this Pam, my heart goes out to you, your sister and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I lost my sister to cancer in June, I was there every day, and it was horrendous watching her suffer, it rips the heart out of you. I know exactly what you feel like, I was very close to my sister as well.

Oh Pam, prayers and thoughts for your sister that she wont suffer. And thoughts and ((((((hugs)))))) for you because she means so much to you. I know you really know that she will be in a better place and out of pain but I can see it is going to be so hard for you as you are close. Bless her as she sets out on her journey and bless you as you prepare for life without her. We are all here for you.

Please will you keep my sister in your prayers, Debbie was 50 on December 1st , and today her life is slowly coming to an end as she loses her fight against lung cancer , she has been battling this dreadfull cancer for nearly 3 years, I dont want her to go but I hate seeing her suffer and how she has been gasping for breath although her breathing is much easier at the moment . I have tried to help her so much over the last few years and done so much with her and I dont want it to end,but I know it has to.
I feel as if my heart is going to break

Pam

I had to come home for a few hours to get some sleep, the hospital stopped all treatment yesterday afternoon and have just been keeping her pain free and comfortable but she is still hanging on in there, her daughter is due to have a baby in the next few days and she was so excited maybe she is hanging on for her to be born. I cannot thank you all enough for all your kind thoughts and messages it makes a huge difference to know that people have there arms around you helping you through such hard times

Love to you all
Pam

Thank you for all your kind words, thoughts and prayers over the last few days but my darling sister left us yesterday , as a family our hearts are broken but we know she is now at peace, please remember her in your prayers
Pam