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Please will you keep my sister in your prayers, Debbie was 50 on December 1st , and today her life is slowly coming to an end as she loses her fight against lung cancer , she has been battling this dreadfull cancer for nearly 3 years, I dont want her to go but I hate seeing her suffer and how she has been gasping for breath although her breathing is much easier at the moment . I have tried to help her so much over the last few years and done so much with her and I dont want it to end,but I know it has to.
I feel as if my heart is going to break

Pam

I had to come home for a few hours to get some sleep, the hospital stopped all treatment yesterday afternoon and have just been keeping her pain free and comfortable but she is still hanging on in there, her daughter is due to have a baby in the next few days and she was so excited maybe she is hanging on for her to be born. I cannot thank you all enough for all your kind thoughts and messages it makes a huge difference to know that people have there arms around you helping you through such hard times

Love to you all
Pam

Thank you for all your kind words, thoughts and prayers over the last few days but my darling sister left us yesterday , as a family our hearts are broken but we know she is now at peace, please remember her in your prayers
Pam

Oh Pam, prayers and thoughts for your sister that she wont suffer. And thoughts and ((((((hugs)))))) for you because she means so much to you. I know you really know that she will be in a better place and out of pain but I can see it is going to be so hard for you as you are close. Bless her as she sets out on her journey and bless you as you prepare for life without her. We are all here for you.

So sorry to hear this Pam, my heart goes out to you, your sister and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I lost my sister to cancer in June, I was there every day, and it was horrendous watching her suffer, it rips the heart out of you. I know exactly what you feel like, I was very close to my sister as well.

Pam, I am so sorry this is happening to your poor sister and your family, it's so hard to watch loved ones suffer, my Dad had the same awful illness but we only knew about it for a few months, from August to the following January.
I hope you can find some comfort in the fact that you were able to do a lot to help your sister and have shared so much, yes, you will miss her but you will meet again one day and meanwhile will have those memories to call on and laugh and cry over. She will always be a part of you.
I can only wish Debbie a gentle passing, I expect she is sedated as my Dad was and will hopefully have a loved one gone before waiting to help her through and be with her so she will not be alone.
You will be in my thoughts as you go through the next hours and days, as will Debbie and all the family and friends she will leave behind.

Lizxx

I am very sorry to read about your sister dying at such a young age.It is terrible to watch a loved one in so much pain and discomfort and not being able to do something to ease it.
May you find the strength to get through this sad time, and hope your sister's passing is a peaceful one.Bless you both.

Pam, I am so sorry, your Sister is so young.

Debbie and all your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care

Teresa x

Pam,
Will keep Debbie in my thoughts and hope that she can slip away peacefully. She will know you are there for her. Treasure all your lovely memories of times past, they last forever.
Sending (((((((hugs)))))))

Cath xx

Pam, l really am so sorry to hear about your sister,
l lost my sister to cancer when she was 48 and she was born on the 1st of December so l really do know what your going through and now my brother has cancer ,it feels like somebody has it in for us.
I pray your lovely sister has a peacefull passing and yes it will hurt but she will never leave you as you have her love and your memories.
May God bless your family, x

Sorry to hear about your sister.Thinking of you and all your family.

Hazelx

Sorry to hear this. My F.I.L died of lung cancer and I agree, it is horrendous not to be able to ease their suffering. Please believe that she is going to a better place where she will feel no pain.

Pam,

May your sister's passing be as peaceful as the doctors can make it.

Thinking of you at this sad time, and be sure to make time for a smile as you recall happier times.

Love,
Elisabeth xx

Pam,

l am so sorry to hear this.
May she soon suffer no more.

Take care
jude xx

Pam.

I am sorry to hear about your sister.

Love and special thoughts to you both

take care

sylvia xx

Pam, if that is what she wants I hope for her sake and her daughters tht the baby arrives in time for her to be aware. (((hugs)))

Pam, still thinking of you and your sister, x

Tragic to go so young and in such a way. Hope little one arrives in time for grandma to know. Thoughts and prayers on their way.

Hi Pam you are all in my Prayers, will say a Prayer to our St Mary McKillop for you all.
Maybe she is waiting to see her new Grandchild that would be special.
I lost my Dad many years ago to same illness and on 30 Dec.

Pam, it would be wonderful if your sister could hold on to hear that her little granddaughter is safely here. How sad for her daughter to have to go through labour knowing her Mum won't be around to share the joys of motherhood. I can only send my thoughts to you all.
Take care going back and forth, if the weather is as nasty as here, it will be tough going.

Lizx

I truly hope your sister can hold on long enough to hear news of the little ones arrival. My heart goes out to her daughter.
Thinking of you,

Cath xx

Pam
I am so sorry to read of Debbie's suffering.
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I can relate to how you feel just now, having waited and hoped at Christmastime at the bedside of my brother who was also in his 50s.

I think Debbie will sense the love of her family around her and may you too feel that comfort from those who care.

Gwyn