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ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 23:12

He was the weak one then in my opinion but to look big and important he had to dominate people, not that I'm an expert but I have met and worked with people who think they are better than me but no one is a better person than anyone else, I've worked and socialised with surgeons, solicitors, managing directors etc but they are all the same, just good at their jobs.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 23:02

I was like that until I met him and being a control freak he wore me down to a nervous wreck, literally

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:57

Well done you, I think I am the opposite would probably hit them if they tried to manipulate or bully me, in fact my son years ago said I am a strong person but I am me and don't know how to be anything else.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 22:43

I did indeed,I still have a few off moments now and again but I can handle them :-D

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:37

And I bet you are a better person than he is, I can't even imagine what that is like but i'm glad you got through it.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 22:31

My cousin has it too and it is awful for him. I am strong minded now but went through a 13 year stretch of mental problems due to my ex.That is why I had to have counselling as I was vever like it until I married the kretin

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:27

It is awful because the sufferer is aware that it is happening and can't do anything about it, I'm the strong one ( mentally ) in our relationship now and he doesn't know how he would cope if I wasn't here for him.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 22:20

Poor fella it really is an awful thing <3. I cope with stress in a way I was taught many years ago by my counsellor and can handle it now without getting too depressed.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:16

Hubby coping mechanism breaks down when he is stressed and he has a melt down moment but that is the Parkinson's causing it.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:12

Its good that you are used to them and know what to do they happen <3

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 22:08

I also get them when I am stressed and have done for years so I am quite used to them now :-D

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:05

That must have been scary before you knew what the cause was.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 22:03

I get palpitations and go light headed when I have caffeine now.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 22:01

Is it a heart health reason, I have read that it isn't good for you if that is the case.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 21:59

When I was in the world of work I used to do 12 hour shifts and it was booooooring I had coffee to keep me awake.

LaGooner

LaGooner Report 27 Sep 2021 21:55

That makes 2 of us ZZzzz. I have to have de caff now for health reasons :-| I do miss the kick that ordinary coffee gave me.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 21:51

By the way YG I may look posh but I is common as muck and happy with it.

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 21:47

When I go to my Brothers he always asks if I want a cup of tea to which I reply, do bears s..t in the woods!

YG

YG Report 27 Sep 2021 21:34

I am always up for a cuppa. The devil's brew is definitely coffee, more so if it's filter coffee :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| :-| I think next to Fennings Fever Cure it is the worst drink in the world :-P :-P :-P :-P :-P

ZZzzz

ZZzzz Report 27 Sep 2021 21:31

Ah sorry we only have caffeinated, we usually need the caffeine fix.