General Chat

We all need to take responsibility for our own behaviour. Carol just because you have received one, or more, nasty pm(s) doesn't excuse Mel when she sends them.

Tania - I would save that PM and if you get any more, save them too - then when you have enough - C & P them all together and send to GR - or paste them on here - or both!

I feel so left out! pmsl

Best to just send any nasty PMs to GR, not bring them on the boards where they create more unrest. Let GR deal with them and hopefully they will stop. The next person to receive one may be more vulnerable. And that goes for anyone who sends/receives nasty PMs.

Who knows who is or is not vulnerable, look at the kids that commit suicide when cyber bullied, nobody knows what sort of personality they are dealing with on here. Don't risk it.

to quote myself
"Mel sending unpleasant PMs sure makes her supporters look foolish when they claim shes hard done by, harassed and victimised "

Carol, I stand by what I said in my last post.

You trying to pass the buck to make Mel's behavior , including the reason for this thread..her unpleasant pm justifiable does make you look some what foolish and to be fair makes you no better as it gives the message that you endorse such behavior :o(((.

Why should tanianz or anyone else for the matter put up with the behind closed doors spiteful PMs Mel is sending ?

Do you think its right that she is sending those pms just because shes your friend and that tanianz should suffer this harassment in silence?..
if so then that can be classed as an approval for behind doors harassment .(forcing victims to shut up and say nothing)

and that is pretty low :o((

So was the person that sent you the nasty vindictive pm's also trying to portray themselves as a hard done by victim on the boards then Carol?

The nasty vindictive pms I have recieved where not from Mel!

aw carol fgs, see the bigger picture!


its pathetic tht u stick up for her time n time again for her to show u up by carrying on her harrasing of members n nastiness
an again u come out and support her aftr she has put more egg on your face by being exactly what your saying she isnt !
if she hated us all why does she bother with us? why cnt she stick to her own threads? why does she have to single members out to be her "hit" for the day??? why does she need so many membership??? i feel sorry for her family no wonder they grow there own veg they couldnt afford to buy it there mum spends to much on gr memberships! or yeaaaa coz she is such a nice person lmaoooooooo

she is making u all who stick up for her, look in my book, little n silly coz time n time again she does it n time n time again u all stick up for her, while she sits bck laughing, knowing, she can do or say what she likes coz there will be always someone to back her and say aw there there, it wasnt your fault the big bad bullys are at it again


yawnnnn its predictable and boring now! xxxx

Are you saying Carol that these pm's were not sent by Mel? Is that what she told you?

Sue

Edit - or are you saying that we have sent nasty pm's to Mel - because I certainly haven't.

No Carol it takes a "special" kind of person to send them and fortunately there arent many of those about

'spiteful vindictive pms' do not all come from the same ip addy!

Oh dear.....nasty pm's....... Hardly the actions of a harassed victim...dearie me.......

Its not fair!

She sent me a NICE PM!

I always miss out on here!


xxxxxx mick

Ha ha, you really do make me laugh. You complain about Mel posting, then when she is not about, you start threads about her




By the way everyone ... do not feel left out ... just put up your own thread ... 'I got a PM'

At least 3 of us received PM's from Mel yesterday so please don't do the "poor girl - she's being harassed and bullied" thing.

Sue

Edit - did you see what she said to Joy, Carol? It was crude and totally uncalled for and Joy did nothing to warrant the attack. Mel then deleted it but not before it was seen.

Oh come on Carol, This is getting stupid now, why can't Mel leave people alone, if she 's sending PM'S she knows what she doing, stop sticking up for her ,please. Carol just a thought why don't you PM her and ask her to stop .

play your tune somewhere else carol
its getting a bit old and tiresome.
if she whats to make a wally of herself by sending juvenile pms to people this is what happens

& she is the attention seeker ?

Unwanted pm’s get ignored, not a thread started about them , but then what/who would you talk about lol

Oh lifes a....beach isnt it? pmsl

Somebody knows better...... than waste their time .......It would go in the bin......And I would be unaffected by it .....