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sending a (((HUG))) thinking of you today

Will be thinking of you Muffy.

Sadly, grief is the price we pay for love.

Hi Muffy, like others I know how you feel. It's the quality of life that counts though, and you having him on your lap last night was pure quality for him. Cherish that, hon.

As for him being put to rest today, some years ago we witnessed a terminally-ill cat being kept alive, against the vet's advice, by his owner who "loved him too much to let him go". The vet was disgusted with her, and she didn't even have the guts to bring him to the vets herself. That poor cat was so unhappy, so take heart that you're doing this out of love for your boy.

Take care.
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Thinking of you this morning Muffy xx let him go and sit in green fields, my mum will be looking after them all there :))

Thinking of you today...

xx

Hi Muffy

Its always hard- and always inevitable.

Get yourself a new kitten, after a suitable break.


xxxxxx mick

Aw Muffy, I am so sorry. It is the hardest gift of love we can give them, when their time comes.

((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Love

Daff xxxxx

aw thinking of u hun xxx

Aee Muffy so sorry to hear this, you are doing the right thing hun

Thinking of you xxxxxx

I feel for you,but you have made the right choice,it takes love and guts to do what you are doing,you can rest knowing that you did everything you could for your much loved cat.
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Thinking of you Muffy
emx

Muffy,

I hope your OK ,
Sorry to hear that your cat has to be put to sleep....it is a horrible thing to do, but we all have to do it......My lovely cat was 18yrs and I was devastated .

So I'm going along with you on this journey..... in my thoughts.

Marilyn x

So very, very sorry to hear about your beloved cat. They give us so much love and loyalty and it is never easy to let them go. Treasure your memories and hopefully get some comfort from them.

Loving thoughts to you and your cat

Love & cuddles
Steph xxx

He's gone :0(

Bless him.

Now I've got to face telling the girls when they get home from school.

Thanks everyone for the kind words and support.

I barely slept last night worrying and I'm worn out now........think I may hide in my farm for a few hours xx

I really do feel for you Muffy :(( Cats leave paw prints on your heart.

Marion

Had mine put down last year Muffy ..... and you are describing what I felt......

.....again......no more animals for me now.......too much distress when they go.....

It is the best kindness that anyone can do after a lifetime's love from a pet.....

x sally

Aaawww Muffy.... I am so sorry. Although what you did was a kindness it still hurts.

I had my beloved dog put to sleep several years ago. I grieved as if I had lost a child as she was so much part of the family.

I wouldn't choose go through that sort of pain again so decided to live without any more pets.

Hugs to you and your daughters.

Jean x.

Someone sent me this when i had to get my old dear put to sleep


IF IT SHOULD BE

if it be i grow frail and weak
and pain should wake me from my sleep
then you must do what must be done
for this last battle cant be won
you will be sad,i understand
don't let your grief then stay your hand
for this day more than all the rest
your love and friendship stand the test
we've had so many happy years
what is to come will hold no fears
you'll not want me to suffer, so
when the time comes,please let me go
i know in time you do me
although my tail it's last has waved
from pain and suffering I've been saved
do not grieve that it should be you
who has to decide this thing to do
we've been so close' we two, these years
don't let your heart hold any tears. Anon

I bottled telling them btw.......they were having such a good time playing in the garden they didn't notice he had gone........... and I didn't want to spoil such a lovely day for them.

I'll try tomorrow. xx

Thanks again for all the support. xx

Oh Muffs,

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