General Chat

Tell them you can only please one person at a time and today is not their day and tomorrow is not looking hopeful either!

Your day, your wedding do what ever pleases you and your bride.

Hope you have a lovely day.

Love Linda x

Do you know Jackie,
i agree with everyone on here ,
it'a YOUR wedding you do what YOU want
and i hope you have a fabulous day .
Hazelx

its your wedding

tell them to like it or lump it

Kevin,,

I am off to Jeans and Tee shirt wedding soon,,,its been requested a dress code for all guests below certain age,,!! of course,,,,,,,,,so looking forward to it,,,

Malc/Jackie...dont let anyone turn your special day into a fiasco,,,.



If others are going to make you feel uncomfortable about your arrangements you wont enjoy it feeling somebody is grumpy on the day,,,,,,,,,,blow them a raspberry and,

***Do it your way***

Ps,, I'd wear the dress for the evening it finish the day off perfect,,,,,,,,,

It's your wedding don't let others decide how you spend your special day.When i got married it was a jeans and tee shirt wedding in church. We still had guests fork out pounds for new suits and dresses. We still got married and enjoyed our day.
Kevin

ps wear your wedding dress to the reception, make the most of it, youre hardly going to wear it again

I kept mine on all day, about 1am we were driving back to harlow (we had our wedding in Edmonton because of family) there was me squashed in the front seat with full wedding dress when a police car pulled upside ours at the lights..the coppers smiled and waved lol...what a memory !

Jackie. You can't please everyone, so please yourselves.
After all, it's your big day, not theirs.

xx

Jackie and Malc..............

'People' ' are turning the most important day of your lives into a living hell....tis up to you to turn the tables......

Personally I would disappear, get married quietly and treasure being man and wife...
because at the end of the day you are the only two persons who matter.

I wish you a long and loving life together.



JoycePxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Begger everyone else, its your wedding.

If they cant make it because this or that aint right, then its their loss.

Start living life for yourselves, and please yourselves.

Remember it doesnt matter what colour the flowers are, or the venue, or the cake if its just so, all you will have is eyes for each other and that all that matters

aWWWW jACKIE, PEOPLE ALWAYS HAVE TO STICK THEIR TWO PENNETH IN, DONT THEY?


oops sorry for shouting lol


Its your day, you two love each other. Do what you want!!


Good luck, love,



Caz xxx

Tell them your bridesmaid/matron of honor are.......
































greyhounds pmsl
matching coats, that will shut them up

shove ya fingers in your ear and go......tingalingaloo.

or words to that effect.lol.
cancel and go away just you malc and your closest.xxx

How very dare they!!! Who the hell do they think they are!! They are invited guests and should be glad they are. Your wedding, your choice - full stop.
You just concentrate of having a beautiful day - it's your day, both of you, and I'm sure your happiness will shine through and wipe out all the negativity

Ignore any criticism, they are just jealous of your happiness. Life goes on and so must you.,. Have a lovely day and let the harpies get on with it. All the best in the future. Jean

Thats an idea.....tell them if they dont stop moaning and accept what you want, you'll run away and nobody will get to go lol

Marion

I agree with Jude. Do what YOU want to do - don't bother telling anyone what you're doing or where you're having it - send them an invitation - they can either come or not!!!

In reality it has absolutely nothing to do with anyone else - YOUR wedding, YOUR choice.

Remember the old song-'You can't please everybody, so you might as well please yourself' LOL

maggie

We are paying for it, including the coach to take everyone to the dogs and back!!

Even had guests telling me what flowers they want in their corsages!! they all want different things.

Now the big debate is whether I should wear my wedding dress to the reception or not. I would go naked but I don't want to frighten the dogs!!

Jackie

Cancel it and go to Gretna Green,get married over the Anvil.

Great place to get married.

and tell your family/friends.IT'S YOURS AND JACKIES DAY.

Hugs for you both.
Suexxx

ps sorry Jackie didn't read who posted.

here here i agree with what marion says its your special day and your alone dont you worry about anybody else other than yourselves

my oh and i got married 8 weeks after we lost a family member in our family and we came up against so much oposition i told them all in the end either thay can and were happy or they could stay away neadless to say they all came (we had our reception in our house) and a great day was had by all

love and hugs to you both

julia xx

Jackie, it's YOUR wedding day, it should be what and where you want it. It's not up to other people and quite frankly, if they can't be bothered to make an effort for you and be happy for you then they are not worth running around after anyway.

You have YOUR day, and enjoy it. Make it a day for YOU TWO to remember. Tough luck on the others.